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Waving to Your Kids

Earlier this week, Gina Trapani published a few great uses for Google Wave. In particular, the product is expected to benefit domains like business—for example, Twiliobot can transcribe phone calls—and education. Here are five ways to wave that are relevant to family life.

1) To-Do Lists
I have never been a Remember The Milk kind of guy, but the rigors of an academic workload forced me to start each day with a list of the 1-3 tasks I need most to complete. That practice evolved into thinking about those daily lists a couple weeks in advance. Recently, I migrated my short-term planning from a text file on my desktop to a wave, sharing it with my wife. When we both understand what nature of hell is coming my way, it allows us to adjust plans for meals, bedtime rituals, or how we support our kids’ LEGO habit.

2) Show and Tell
My current methods of sharing links include Twitter, Twine, and SocialBrowse. Sometimes, I’ll paste a link in an IM to my wife, but rarely do I forward links to other people through email. By creating a wave that my family can access, the interesting stuff we find can be posted in a blip, creating a home for that information that has some permanence but is easier to find later on. I share the Mythbuster’s PSA on flu prevention and the existence of micro pigs, and I get the German name for Super Mario boss, Sechs-Fratzen-Fritz. It is also easier now to find the #6 bus schedule home.

3) Bedtime Stories
My boys and I are currently in the middle of 13 1/2 Lives of Captain Bluebear, but we have been known to spin our own yarns at bedtime. Many of these stories are formula, involving Scooby Doo unmasking ghouls who turn out to be mean farmers trying to cash in on a real estate scheme. I’ve also borrowed heavily from movie plots. The more tired I become, the more lead time I need to think of something original to tell them at night. Opening up a wave with my son allows him to suggest some characters and situations during the day that we can brainstorm into something presentable by evening. Plus, the blips become records for future iterations that can lead to later writing projects and future comic book sales.

4) Online Scavenger Hunt
Google integrates web search into Waves, which opens up the possibility for a real-time collaborative search. Many of the shows my son watches on Discovery or the History Channel lead to questions that can be answered online. Wave’s playback feature lets me follow how he came to the answers, even when I’m not available to help him in real time. We can also make a game of it, such as trying to be the first to find the answer to life, the universe, and everything. (As a good next-gen geek, he already knows that one by heart.)

5) Help Desk
Questions arise during the day that may be beyond my son’s search skills, or (gasp) even beyond the vast knowledge of the Web. For those moments, an open wave can become both a troubleshooting resource and a potential FAQ he can refer to later. Perhaps Google will save me a hundred repetitions by simply aggregating all of the places around the house where the kids’ shoes might be.

Obviously, there is nothing in the above list that can’t be done through other channels. Teaching a pre-teen how to edit a wiki, though, doesn’t seem to be as simple as teaching him to wave. Google isn’t a replacement for conversation, but it can facilitate good communication when talk is impossible.

Since it was acquired, I have basically abandoned Friendfeed. I love the service, but I am waiting to see how the team integrates it into Facebook.

Unsurprisingly, traffic to the Friendfeed site has plummeted since the acquisition in August. And Posterous now has nearly as much traffic (Posterous is the red line above), but trails Tumblr by a wide margin and Twitter by light years.

What does this say about the future of lifestreaming services? I still see a big space in between in between blogs and Twitter that allows you to have a hub and spoke strategy and post in multiple formats. That's one reason I am bullish about both Posterous and Tumblr.

One of the big things that Facebook brings to the age of streams is instant messaging and presence indicators - the ability to see who is online right now and active on the service so you can chat in real time. I hope that sites like Twitter (and its ecosystem of apps) do the same. My bet is that they will soon tie into IM networks more in the near future.

In the meantime, I am very interested in what AOL has been up to lately in bringing lifestreaming and social content the other direction - into IM clients that millions already use. This isn't just a big user base but they're also mainstream users too. Now it's all coming in the iPhone.

With the integration of lifestreaming into the mobile IM client and the potential to create even more value through location-based social networking services, this entire space is about to get a lot more interesting. Keep an eye on the big IM nets and their massive social graphs. They are sleeping giants that are waking up to the potential here.