I work as a family nurse practitioner, love my career. My oldest child is living out on her own, she calls it independence but I seem to always be "lending" her money. The other three are teenagers. Love having all girls, we have great times together. I have a wonderful husband who puts up with all my perfectionistic neuroticness (for lack of a better word). He has definitely helped me chill out over the years. Trust me he has plenty of traits that irritate me too therefore we are a good fit for one another.