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gaander says...

SS: Kind of a random selection on both sides, right?

"Couples Retreat": Soundtrack by A.R. Rahman

A.R. Rahman scored big in Hollywood last year with the soundtrack to Slumdog Millionaire, though of course those of us who have been listening to him since the 1990s know that in fact Slumdog was far from his best work (my favorite, Dil Se… was actually my first; those songs completely changed how I thought about Hindi film music). In the wake of all the Oscar love, I was fully expecting Rahman to get some calls from prominent American directors for upcoming films.

Well, Rahman is going to make his debut with a Hollywood soundtrack this fall. But he’s not working with Steven Soderbergh, Steven Spielberg, or Clint Eastwood. Instead, his debut soundtrack is for a Vince Vaughn comedy called Couples Retreat.

Thrilling.

The soundtrack hasn’t been released yet, but you can listen to the tracks on the Soundtrack website: here.

As a partial relief, the soundtrack sounds great. I think “Sajna” sounds especially nice, but even some of the instrumental tracks are cool (try “Undress”). Tamil-speakers might also like “Kuru Kuru Kan,” [update: track removed]. (Anyone want to do some translation help?)

I’m still trying to digest the decision to debut with what looks like a second-rate sex comedy. From what I have heard from the soundtrack so far, it sounds like Rahman has made some great music for this film. But will anyone be paying attention?

amardeep at 11:04 PM in Music


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30 Mosques in 30 days…

SS: A pretty cool concept and a great idea for an event-based blog…..

Via Sepia Mutiny

amanbassam.pngAman Ali and Bassam Tariq are taking a journey through New York City’s Muslim communities by visiting a different mosque in the city each night of the Ramadan month. They are documenting the experience in writing and with photos at 30 Mosques in 30 Days.

musala.jpgNYC has about one million Muslims and 30 Mosques offers an interesting peek at the diverse mosques the two friends visit, their histories and the communities that gather at each place of worship. The project has caught the attention of TV, news and blogs, but Tariq’s mother wasn’t really into it at first.

“She was like, be careful, the FBI is going to follow you,” he recalls. “I said, ‘don’t worry, mom. Things have changed. We have a black president now. Things are going to get better.’” (NY1) (As it happens, the most recent update on their site notes that someone at a Bosnian mosque asked Tariq for his ID because of an “incident with the FBI.”)

Tariq also told TV network NY1, “sometimes we’re the only ones that are South Asian, and the place will be all Indonesian or all African American, and we’ll walk in and everyone will be very happy.”

kids.jpgThe photos they took of the places, people and food help to convey the spirit of these places of worship, small and large. Ali described what made a particular mosque undergoing construction a beautiful place. Even with rolled-up insulation in the open and wooden planks underfoot, the people managed to strategically use carpets and lighting to create a cozy environment.

There was something incredibly humbling about this place, that’s hard for me to put in words. You don’t need things like extravagant domes and fancy calligraphy on the walls to make yourself feel at home in a mosque. Because there’s more than one way to make a place look beautiful, as the people here have done. (link)

While the images and writings on their site often give a sense of the warm welcomes they received and the delicious-looking assortment of foods offered for breaking the fast, they don’t limit themselves to sharing the purely positive aspects of the experience.

For example, during a solo visit to a mosque in his neighborhood attended by West Africans, two blocks away from a Bangladeshi one, Tariq felt uncomfortable.

In fact, it was only when I started to wonder how the rest of the congregation percieved me that I began to feel uneasy. I felt like a freeloader coming in — barely eating the food offered to me — and then leaving abruptly aftewards. A bad exhibitionist, if you will. Though no one in the masjid might have felt that way, I wonder if anyone asked themselves, “Why didn’t he just go to the Bangladeshi mosque?” Maybe it’s my own insecurities that raise the question.

Overcoming personal insecurities and stepping out of one’s comfort zone to meet and pray with new people from different cultures every night does not sound like the easiest thing to do. I give Ali and Tariq credit for doing that on a regular basis during their Ramadan journey across the city, after a full day of fasting and holding down their respective dayjobs as a stand-up comic and copywriter.

I haven’t had a chance to read all the write-ups and photo essays yet but did notice visits to Brooklyn’s Masjid Khalifah, a mosque started by Malcolm X followers, Staten Island’s Albanian Islamic Cultural Center, mosques in Harlem and in the Bronx, and one in Queens with a predominantly Indonesian congregation. Some mosques had previous lives as dance halls, truck companies and banquet halls.

Besides crossing geographical boundaries, the project also involves crossing community boundaries between Shi’a and Sunni Muslims. A visit to a Shi’a mosque prompted Fatima Ashraf, one of the women contributing to the project, to reflect on what it’s like for Shi’a Muslims.

I felt like such an outsider. Other than the piece of clay and praying with my arms at my side, I had no idea what I was doing. I reflected on my discomfort - Shi’as are such a minority in the Muslim community all over the world. But in the states, when we are all minorities, and mosques are numbered, how must Shi’as feel in Sunni masjids? And since there are far more Sunni masjids than Shi’a ones, it must be a pretty common that Shi’as find themselves in Sunni land. (link)

I’m not Muslim or familiar with how things work at mosques, so I appreciated the chance to get a glimpse from the inside of various NYC Muslim communities as provided by Ali, Tariq and other contributors to their project. I am also curious to see how they might continue their exploration and interaction with NYC’s mosques and their communities after the 30 days is over.

What do you think of the 30 Mosques in 30 Days project?

Related: New York Masjid: The Mosques of New York seems to focus on the architecture of Muslim places of worship in NYC: slideshow of photos from the book, additional photos and interview with the co-authors.

A quick Q&A wiith Aman Ali about 30 Mosques.

 

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SS: A women after my own heart...check out the youTube clip, she's got some skills. "DJ Jazzy Jeff was quoted as saying that you are the best female DJ he has ever seen" - That is some really high praise...here are some more clips you can check out if you're interested, as well as her MySpace page.

DJ Kayper Tears Up The Turntables

November 06 2008 18:40 PST

It's a Saturday night and hundreds of clubbers pack into the hottest venues to move to the beats of a woman who is taking over the DJ circuit. The crowd goes bananas when DJ Kayper, aka, Kaajal Bakrania, takes over the DJ booth. Watching her cousins DJ is what sparked Kayper's interest to get involved in the spinning circuit. Her determination is what got her hands on her brother's turntables at the young age of 12, when DJ Kayper honed her skills. When she went off to university, she entered the prestigious Vestax Juice DJ competition. Kayper was the first female to ever win the competition, and her career skyrocketed from there! Now, she travels all over the world, leaving a trail of global die-hard fans. DH! got an exclusive interview with this young girl, who discussed her phenomenal career and new mix tape, '2080's'!


DH!: DJ Jazzy Jeff was quoted as saying that you are the best female DJ he has ever seen. How did you get acquainted with him?

DJ Kayper: In University I used to do this club night called 'Ebonics'. I made it a point to book quality DJs, legends. People know that when I want something I find a way to get it, and I wanted to book Jazzy Jeff. I ended up booking him three times. He saw me DJ and he was curious about me. I never went hard in front of him because I wanted him to be the star and I wanted people to praise him. So, he didn't know that I scratched or did tricks on the turntables. He checked me out on Youtube and I guess he was impressed. After watching my video he said that I was the best female DJ he has ever seen!"

DH!: You have traveled all over the world at a young age. Tell us about your first gig overseas.

DJ Kayper: Greece was the first time I went abroad. I went to one of the Greek Islands. It was the first time I had been on a plane since holiday with my parents when I was ten and I didn't have a clue what to do. I went by myself and as soon as I walked in I didn't realize what was happening [because] I never deejayed abroad before. The club turned out to be about 2000 capacity. I walked into the club and my flight was delayed so I couldn't change! I had all kinds of people and lights, cameras around me and I didn't know what to do. This was the first club I deejayed at that was big! They had TV crews and all kinds of stuff.

DH!: Out of the different places you have traveled to, what is one of your recent favorites?

DJ Kayper: I went to Malaysia this year and that was pretty sick! They are so up for it all the time there. Sometimes when DJs go abroad, they think the crowd won't know the music or whatever, so that they should stick to the commercial stuff, but they were really upfront. They knew their stuff! That was recently one of my favorite places.

DH!: People tend to make a huge deal about the fact that you are a female DJ. How does that make you feel?

DJ Kayper: I think that it's a bit sad to be honest [because] I would have thought that at this point I've been doing it so long that it wouldn't be such a novelty, but it still is. But, it's nobody's fault. People need to get over it! I get so many phones calls to do things like 'all female night'. In fact, I got a phone call yesterday and the dude [said], "We're doing this tour and I saw you DJ the other day. I don't know if you remember, but I'd really like you to get involved. It's like an all girl DJ group thing'.  I'm like, "Come on, man, are you serious?" It's been like 13 years and...people asked me to do that 13 years ago. Alright, get over it now...girls DJ! It's not like football. It's not like you need a 'girl's league' and a 'boy's league'. People need to get over the whole girl DJ thing. DJs are DJs! Hopefully, they think that of me anyway.

DH!: People often associate you with hiphop. What are your thoughts about that?

DJ Kayper: Well, the thing is, everyone associates me with hiphop, but really I truly don't just consider myself just a hiphop DJ. I grew up listening to everything. Of course, hiphop is my first love, but I also grew up listening to 80s pop, new jack swing, drum and bass, UK garage and all these genres of music were around me. Maybe it's because the people I associate myself with or maybe it's because of my last mix tape, 'Bring Back Yo! MTV Raps' that makes everyone  associate me with just hiphop. That's one of the reasons I'm putting this mix tape out so people know I'm not just limited to hiphop. It's not that it's a bad thing that people often just associate me to hiphop, but I just want to show that I'm a little bit diverse and I can do other things."

DH!: So, what prompted you to focus on 80s pop anthems for your new project?

DJ Kayper: I wanted to reminisce about some of the stuff I was listening to when I was a kid. What I want people to get from the mix tape is that music is just music. The mix tape has 80s pop and...it's also got 80s electro and then 80s soul as well, but that to me is all pop music. I just wanted to mix it up and show people it does go together well, and that's why I did the mash up thing as well. Some people that may be too young  to know the tracks on the mix tape, but  at least they'll recognize the a cappella  because there all new a capella's of recent artists like Pitbull, and Nelly Furtado. They're going to recognize that because that's modern pop music and I'm just basically mixing it up with what I grew up listening to. It's kind of like a compromise between new stuff and the old stuff.

DH!: Is there a message you want to send out to our readers here at Desi Hits!?

DJ Kayper: Watch out for the next thing. Everything I do I kind of put a lot of work into. If you listen to my mix tapes...just know that whatever I put out, it's going to be quality and I'm going to put my all into it. Just keep checking my MySpace and Facebook if you want to find out what I'm doing and where I'm going to be.

 

 

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India brides had 'virginity test'

By Faisal Mohammad Ali in Bhopal

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India's National Commission for Women wants Madhya Pradesh state to explain why hundreds of would-be brides reportedly underwent virginity tests.

All the women who took part in a state-run mass wedding last month were forced to take the test, witnesses say.

Several of the women later complained that they had found the exercise shameful and humiliating.

Officals deny virginity tests took place. They said the tests had been to ensure the women were not pregnant.

In India, a bride's virginity is highly prized and pre-marital sex is frowned upon.

'Dubious'

According to reports, young women who had signed up for the mass marriage ceremony in the city of Shahdol, 600km (373 miles) from the state capital, Bhopal, were told about the test when they reached the venue.

Such a shameful act where girls had to reportedly undergo tests to prove their chastity to avail the government's financial aid were sinful
Girija Vyas,
National Commission for Women

Almost all of them were from poor, tribal families.

Eyewitnesses said the women had to queue up before undergoing an extensive physical examination by a female doctor before they were given a special badge which allowed them to participate in the ceremony.

Several of the women were quoted as saying that they had at first refused to submit to the test - but were told by officials that they would receive their wedding gifts worth 6,500 rupees (about $132) only if they took the test.

"Such a shameful act where girls had to reportedly undergo tests to prove their chastity to avail the government's financial aid were sinful and could not be tolerated in a sane society," the chairperson of the Indian National Commission for Women, Girija Vyas, said.

But a senior administration official in Shahdol, Neeraj Dubey, denied there had been any virginity tests.

He told the BBC that the number of marriage candidates who had turned up at the venue had far exceeded initial applications.

Many of the would-be brides did not have proper documents and some looked "dubious", he said. Therefore, officials present had asked the doctor to examine the candidates, he said.

Officials say pregnancy tests were introduced after a woman gave birth during an earlier mass wedding ceremony.

Mass marriages, generally organised by social organisations, are common in India where the custom of dowry is still widespread.

The scheme in Madhya Pradesh was started in 2006 by Chief Minister Shivraj Singh Chauhan to aid girls from poor families to get married.

The scheme helped Mr Chauhan's Bharatiya Janata Party win many votes in state assembly elections last year.

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gaander says...

This goes in the what were the thinking dept....

The snack is sacred but the idiocy divine

It seems that Burger King decided that Carl's Jr had a good thing going using (Padma) Lakshmi to advertise hamburgers, so they ran an ad in Spain using Padma Lakshmi to advertise ... Ham Burgers with the tag line "The Snack is Sacred."





I don't know about you, but even as a non-Hindu I found this pretty offensive. Lakshmi is the Goddess of wealth and learning, and they're using her image in an ignorant way to promote a pretty cheap foodstuff. I mean, if you're going to be offensive and use a Hindu Goddess to sell a meat product, why not go all the way and get your forbidden foodstuffs right? Hindus are most offended by beef and Muslims are most offended by pork. It's like they couldn't even be bothered to tell their non-Christian religions apart, even though Spain was ruled by Muslims for hundreds of years.



Of course, when news got out, a holy ruckus was raised, and BK issued a rare apology:



"We are apologising because it wasn't our intent to offend anyone," said spokeswoman Denise T Wilson. "Burger King Corporation values and respects all of its guests as well as the communities we serve. This in-store advertisement was running to support only local promotion for three restaurants in Spain and was not intended to offend anyone. "Out of respect for the Hindu community, the limited-time advertisement has been removed from the restaurants," she added. [link]


At BK, we offend you our way.






ennis at 11:24 AM in Food, Humor, Religion


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So, I was walking up the street yesterday from work minding my own business and I turn to my left and who do I see??? Bollywood stars Shah Rukh Khan and Kajol, chilling at the local tapas place about two blocks from my house on Pacific and Mason in Nob Hill, now turned into the "Karma Cafe"!!  They are apparently in SF for a few months shooting for a new movie, "My Name is Khan". They were shooting there again today....I couldn't get any better pics of the stars as they were being strict about taking pics. Shah Rukh is the guy chilling under the umbrella (he had a guy holding an umbrella for him between takes). I was hoping to see a dance sequence, but didn't get too unfortunately. There was a crowd of about fifty people, apparently people have been following him around the city. I have to say, Kajol was very in pretty person!

UPDATE: My friend, who was also there yesterday, got some much better close up shots of SRK aka King Khan....here they are:

http://gaander.posterous.com/private/tefgglInGI

     
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Touching first-person story about a Native American handyman became connected to an Indian family in rural Georgia….. (Shout to Sepia Mutiny - View article...)

How I became a Patel

By Rick “Patel” Beltz

Ten years ago my life was in shambles. I barely made a living as a handyman. A severe inferiority complex and a short temper had me at odds with the world. My marriage was breaking apart right in front of my eyes. I was a lowdown alcoholic with no self-esteem, no direction, and no real future.

That is when the Patel family—Vipul, his wife Bharti, his mother Gulaben, and his six-week old son Nikhil—came into my rural North Georgia life. While I didn’t know it then, it was a turning point in my life, to say the least. As a Native American who had lived all his life in Toccoa, Georgia, before meeting the Patels, I had very little experience with other cultures. Indeed, my only exposure to other cultures came from my interactions with Hispanics. Other than that, what I knew about worlds outside my North Georgia cocoon came from movies, where foreigners are often portrayed as evil, scheming, greedy characters. To me, people from India were turban-wearing dolts working at the local 7-Eleven.

The Patels, who had just purchased the motel at which I was living and providing handyman services, would completely demolish my preconceived notions about Indians and foreigners; but that is the least they would do. Over the years, I would come clean with myself, quit alcohol, start believing in myself, in people, and in life—all because this one family gave me unconditional acceptance and love almost from the time I first met them.

In spite of coming to know me as a sinking person with a baggage of issues, Vipul must have seen some spark of potential in me. Whatever it was, we clicked—which is more than I could say for anyone else around me in those bleak days of my life. It’s not that we didn’t have arguments; I was difficult to get along with, specially those days.

But every chance they got, Vipul and his wife and his mother encouraged me to stop drinking—without being preachy about it. But for me, it wasn’t a cakewalk. The more I fought them, the harder they tried to convince me to straighten up. Vipul finally realized that I was digging my grave with my heavy drinking; one fine day he sat me down and looked straight into my eyes, and said, “Look man, my family has had a history of problems like this too, and I know what this addiction is capable of doing. You are too young to die from being an alcoholic. You best take time, and think about where you are headed. If you need help going into rehab, I will help you. My family thinks a lot of you, and we don’t want to see you die. If you’re going to do that anyway, then all I can ask you to do is go somewhere else to destroy yourself, because we don’t want to see it.”

I was preached many times before about my drinking, and by many people. But it was something about the way Vipul laid it out to me—straight-out honest, eye-to-eye—that hit me.

After several arguments, cursing, and total hell, I quit drinking, seven years ago—three years into my relationship with the Patel family. In time, I mended my ways, a lot because of the way I was accepted and trusted by the Patels. Slowly, they worked with me. When they started giving me more responsibility, opportunities, and encouragement, I finally began to listen to them. They nurtured me and most likely saved my life. I began to appreciate and enjoy my relationship with them.

Somewhere along the way, we—the Patels and I—became a family. Before I knew it, I was calling Gulaben “mom”, and Vipul’s kids (they now had two) were calling me kaka (uncle). When she would have trouble talking to someone in English over the phone, Gulaben would tell the caller, “Hold on, let me give it to my son,” before handing me the phone.

The Patels have taught me the meaning of what a family is supposed to be. Vipul is more than a brother, Bharti is more than any sister could ever be. Gulaben, mom, is the very essence of motherhood. And the boys, 10-year-old Nikhil and five-year-old Aryan, are a combination of nephews and “my own children” (since I have none). Through all the ups and downs, they have taught me much, not the least of which is self-respect, self-reliance, self-worth, peace, harmony, and a greater understanding of life, as it’s supposed to be.

Over the years, the Patels have grown and become prosperous, and so have I, with their help and support. They now own two motels in our little North Georgia community. From manning the front desk, to keeping the properties in good repair, to taking the kids to school when needed, I do it all. I have come to know all the other Gujarati families in the area that the Patels socialize with. I also do work for their properties, and get invited to their functions.

Through this experience, how I wish more Americans would forget their cultural and religious differences and focus only on the people. I, for one, consider myself fortunate for having been taken in as a family member despite the vast differences in cultures and traditions. I am proud to say I am a Patel—in spirit and soul.



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via Sepia Mutiny by ennis on 6/3/09

Australia is a country with strong cultural pressures to conform; Aussies are rewarded for fitting in rather than standing out in all areas except for athletics. It's known as the tall poppy syndrome, as in the tall poppy gets mowed down. In the USA, there's a different saying, one about squeaky wheels, and I'm glad to say that desis in Australia seem to be following the American model.

This weekend, at least 2,000 Indians protested in Melbourne, blocking traffic on a busy street for almost 20 hours to protest the large number of crimes and assaults against Indians in the last year and the lack of police interest or response. The demonstrations started at Royal Melbourne Hospital where Sravan Kumar Theerthala was lying comotose after having been stabbed with a screwdriver at a party.

Latest available police figures say 1,447 people of Indian origin were robbed or assaulted in Victoria state in 2007-2008, although students from the country say they have risen since then. Many of the most serious cases occurred in the western suburbs of the state capital Melbourne, where police estimate Indians account for about 30 percent of all robbery and assault victims. [link]

Police have denied any racial motivation, saying the students were in the wrong place at the wrong time. They have said the crimes were "opportunistic", with Indian students seen as "soft targets". [link]

In addition to the protests in Melbourne, there was a strong diplomatic response. Manmohan Singh has called the Australian PM, and the Indian and Australian Foreign Ministers are holding talks on the matter. The diplomatic engagement was accompanied by a vigorous thapad by BigB who turned down a honorary doctorate offered by the Queensland University of Technology, saying "Under the prevailing circumstances I find it inappropriate at this juncture, to accept this decoration."

This is a serious issue for Australia because it makes $15 billion (AU) from foreign students, 40% of whom come from India and China (90,000 Indian students and 130,000 Chinese students). Foreign students are the third largest export earner behind coal and iron ore.

Right now, news of these attacks has widespread coverage in India and both governments are threatening to discourage future students from coming to Australia. This is a credible threat, a few years ago the New Zealand government failed to take racist violence against Chinese students seriously and they lost all their Chinese students as a consequence.

As a result of this escalation the Australian authorities have changed their tune considerably, and they are now bringing in the PM's national security advisor to formulate policy:

Australia said Tuesday the former head of its elite Special Air Service (SAS) regiment will lead a task force examining attacks on Indian students ... Duncan Lewis, now the government's national security adviser, chaired the task force's first meeting Tuesday and would coordinate Australia's response to the assaults. [link]

The government is also considering enacting hate crime legislation that would consider prejudicial motivation as a factor in sentencing.

I think it's pretty sad that it took this much diplomatic pressure, and some outright hysteria by the Indian media, before the Australian authorities would take the issue seriously. That said, based on my experience with hate crimes in the USA, the copycat attacks (including vandalism of a Gurdwara on Monday and a slashing yesterday) should die down as soon as perpetrators realize that the government will be enforcing the law vigorously. I've got family in Australia, I'd like to feel that they're safe.

ennis at 01:32 PM in Politics

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Wal-Mart Exports Big-Box Concept to India

AMRITSAR, India -- Wal-Mart Stores Inc. on Saturday rolls out its deep-discount retailing formula in India, targeted at a more than $350 billion a year retail industry made up almost entirely of small merchants such as Ranjit Singh.

Mr. Singh, 18 years old, sells cookies, chewing tobacco and soft drinks from a wooden cart across the street from the construction site of Wal-Mart's first Indian store. Under Indian rules governing foreign retailers, Wal-Mart and its joint venture partner, Bharti Enterprises Ltd., can't sell directly to consumers but instead will operate a cash-and-carry business selling 10,000 products to licensed store owners, schools, hospitals, hotels and other institutions.

Even before it opened, the Wal-Mart store, operating under the name Best Price Modern Wholesale, has been a boon for Mr. Singh, he said. Most of his customers are the dozens of construction workers building the giant new edifice.

"I've never seen a store so big, never even heard of Wal-Mart," he said. "I hope it will bring those high-society people here."

Mr. Singh and the more than 10 million other tiny retailers in India are Wal-Mart's greatest challenge and greatest opportunity. If it can win them over, they are likely to become its biggest customers. Anger them and they could use their political power to block expansion.

After opening their first store here in Amritsar, in the northwestern state of Punjab, Wal-Mart and Bharti plan to open as many as 15 stores nationwide in the next three years, said Raj Jain, president of Wal-Mart India.

Wal-Mart has been preparing Amritsar for its arrival, said Mr. Jain. It handed out more than 30,000 free memberships, spoke to small business associations and surveyed shop keepers. It prepared a video in the local language to introduce Wal-Mart and its business style. "People are beginning to understand that there is a place for modern retailing and a place for traditional stores," said Mr. Jain.

India is part of Wal-Mart's rapid global expansion under Mike Duke, the former head of the company's international division who in February became CEO. In his previous job, he recruited native-born managers in international markets who understood local customs. Mr. Jain, for example, had worked more than 20 years here for Unilever PLC and Whirlpool Corp. Wal-Mart's 3,400 international stores generate close to one quarter of the company's revenue.


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The arrival of big-box wholesalers and retailers in India was a major political issue a couple of years ago, with widespread protests from small merchants. But as the Indian economy has slowed, the furor has eased. Shoppers became accustom to larger stores from local retailers such as Pantaloon Retail India Ltd.

"People appreciate that they are clean, that they are organized and you have everything in one place," says Rakhee Mehta, a Mumbai-based retailing consultant.

There have been no protests around the building of Wal-Mart's new store. The 50,000-square foot Best Price store is slightly larger than a typical U.S. grocery store and is the biggest building for miles along an old highway. It is surrounded by a huge parking lot, a rarity in India.

The state government welcomed the investment and the jobs it will create though some fear the effect it will have on small merchants.

Representatives from the new store in Amritsar have reached out to local merchants in the neighborhood to let them know Wal-Mart intends to supply small shop owners not compete with them.

They handed out cards explaining in English that merchants had only to present their business license to become members of the store. Unfortunately, few of the nearby retailers read English or have government businesses licenses. Rather, they operate informally.

—Sonya Misquitta in Mumbai contributed to this article.

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via Sepia Mutiny by Melvin on 4/23/09

Picture this: You're a single woman in your early forties whoAunties has taken a liking to a handsome twenty-something guy who lives in your apartment building. Hey, if it works for Demi, why not you? So you gather the courage and leave a box of samosas at his door, with a note that says, "Just made a batch and thought you might like a few."

An hour later, there's a knock at your door. He's standing there in shorts and a tank top, looking as studly as ever. "The samosas were great," he says. "Thank you for thinking of me, Aunty."

Well, that scenario probably never happened to Shobha Tharoor Srinivasan, but she's nevertheless peeved about being called "aunty" by people she barely knows, as she states in this month's Khabar (her piece originally appeared in India Currents, linked below).

Today, the title “aunty” is so overused and misused that it has lost its position and meaning. Indian-American children are taught that every adult female is a potential aunty; many carry this presumption to the conclusion that any adult female older than them can be an aunty. I’m not referring to school children here, but to those I see as adults, the lipsticked and bearded variety, who ought to know better. Don’t get me wrong. I don’t have a problem with terms like ammayi, or cheriamma, or edathi, all specific Malayalam words that acknowledge individuals who are close family members and deserve rightful respect in the family’s pecking order. There are equivalent terms in every Indian language: terms like maami, mausi, and didi that all validate close family connections. But amongst English-speaking Indian Americans, the frequent use of “aunty” or “uncle” is more often an example of lazy speech, or a desire to bump the individual in question into the category of doddering older-other, than it is a thoughtful moniker of respect. Therein lies the problem. [Link]

Srinivasan, Director of Development at SVILC, Santa Clara County’s Independent Living Center (and aunty to Shashi Tharoor's sons), notes the importance of aunties in our culture -- "Children have always needed aunties: women who were caring and courageous enough to share in the act of mothering" -- and offers some guidelines on using the term "aunty":

If I have not known you when you were a child, and been a part of your life as you learnt and grew—I am not your aunty.

If you are an adult with or without furrows on your temples, and our paths have never crossed before—I am not your aunty.

If your children are younger than mine, or you are the same age as my grown children, but I am meeting you for the first time—I am not your aunty.

And if you’re just not sure what to call someone? Ask; don’t assume. [Link]

I've been called "uncle" a few times and not just by my nephew and nieces, so I'd like to offer some guidelines too. Whatever your age, you may use the term "uncle," as long as you use it in sentences like these:

"Sure, Uncle, I'll babysit your children every Friday night."

"May I mow your lawn for you, Uncle?"

"To my Uncle Melvin, I leave all my worldly possessions ..."

And, of course:

    "Here are some samosas I made for you, Uncle."

Melvin at 03:26 PM in Issues

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