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c-stokes says...

I was challenged in class today to make the first sermon that I ever give to church about unity. Unity is a huge deal in scripture, especially first Corinthians, but it appears to be much easier said then done. I can preach a sermon on unity and on how we need to have, and probably everyone would agree with me, but the question that would be left in the air is how exactly to have unity. Possible solutions that have been suggested for this problem are:

1) Realize that we really don't have problems. - This phrase is usually given as the easy out. It is desperate attempt at unity that falls short because in reality it is denial. Everyone knows that we should be unified, and that is easy to say until a real problem arises in the church over two conflicting doctrines or other issues. Therefore if these issues and problems are ignored and people pretend that they are not their the divisions are only worsened. To say that we can have unity by pretending that we have no conflicts in the church will ultimately lead to many more conflicts and divisions that are still not addressed.

2) Send those who do not believe like us away, there is another church for them. - In America we have a lot of churches. In a fifteen mile radius from downtown Dallas, there are over 3200 churches. Because of this we have a formula in place for when we disagree and have divisions, we simply go to another church. This doesn't solve any problems, but instead if the problems are out of sight then they are out of mind. Now I am not saying that there is no good reasons to have denominations, but what I am saying is that we see ourselves as having way to much freedom to switch churches whenever we feel like we are not "unified"with the body (and really most of the time what we mean is that we don't feel comfortable with the church). Since when is it permissible to leave your family and go to another family simply because it feels more comfortable there. However, this has been made easy, not only because of the average church goers view of church, but also because many times it is suggested by those in charge that if you do not believe like, there is another church for you.

These previous two solutions I clearly don't agree with, here is what I do agree with though.

3) Realize that we will disagree. The key to unity in my opinion is realizing that there are problems in the church and that at times we will have conflict. However, we don't have to panic over this conflict. If we continue to split churches over issues, then what we will end up with is exactly what we have, a lot of churches that think differently about different issues and that is what defines their church. So even if one side is much better and more Biblical, everyone still loses when the church splits because the opposing side is going to go make converts and bring them to their church, and so more people will believe their side and the battle is lost. Instead we need to be unified on the fact that we a Christians if we adhere to the core of the gospel based on the person and works of Christ. 
             On a side note though, acknowledging that we all have differences and will disagree only works if there are no super-Christians. If someone in the church is seen as a "super-Christian" then the crowd wants to follow everything that the "super-Christian" says. However, if we recognize that we are all sinners, and that none of us has it all together then it is possible for us to start working together as a unified church. A church cannot be unified if we start seeing some people as better Christians than us and some as worse. It's like judging the maturity of a two year old, no matter how mature they are they're still only two. The measure for maturity in the church is perfection in light of the works of Christ, and according to that standard we all (in a unified manner) fall flat on our faces.

So this is a call to unity, but unity can only be achieved among a bunch of sinners when we realize that no one is better than anyone else and that we will disagree on issues.

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assbach says...

I resized this spot yesterday to the maximum size available (thanks to @mc_o for the hint) but it still won't let me log in on the other side of the central station. I even tried to place the pin in the center of the whole place... For those who are familiar with the place: When I created the spot I was located at track 10/11. Logging in at the other end in the subway ( the side the cathedral is placed ) doesn't work. I think it's quite stupid to create a new spot isn't it? Any ideas? Is it because I'm underground and GPS is too low probably?

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Showey says...

This certainly made me laugh out loud in a week where I've endured pain at the hands of certain contract providers I've been dealing with (landlord included).

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GymKarma says...

Back again. 

This week we've managed 3 or 4 stroking the skin sessions, using baby oil, and a whole lot of conversation about stuff going on in our heads. I'm digging around like a crazy fool, trying to out-think the thinker which is my g/f, and all because... what? 

Well, yeah that's the point I suddenly got to realise at this weeks session. All this thinking about why and how and when etc, trying to figure out why things are stuck the way they are, is a pointless painful task. 

Things are going great atm... I'm just impatient and trying to fix stuff that I can't. I just need to chill and let time do the work. The therapist Kay says that maybe she shouldn't push either? Push what you're wondering.. well push to try and dig for answers in my g/f's head. Just the shear thought of it is making screw up into a tight little ball prior to each session I'm sure. I know she hates it when all the focus is on her, because its difficult for her to find the answers let alone a professional, but lets face it, she is the one with all the answers and solutions. All I can do is be supportive, as patient as possible, be pushy when needed and be there for when she feels ready and needs a good kiss and a cuddle. 

Btw - she reads this blog. I don't think I mentioned this before. I've asked her to comment etc, but I think she likes reading about whats going on in my thoughts, and quite likes the idea of being able to look back over this in years to come and reflect on the whole sorry situation. Sometimes I get the thoughts right down here and sometimes I'm not so accurate in my recollections and assumptions, however she feels its a bit like fiction because none of our real names are mentioned, so the urge to correct the misunderstandings I type isn't so urgent. 

I'd like to take some photo's of us btw - get my camera out in bed, or cuddling on the sofa etc. Posterous is a pretty good blog setup and I'm itching to use more of the features here. I'll promise to keep our identities out of the frame tho, but I'm a bit of a camera geek, so expect some rich medias to arrive soon :)

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myklbiz says...

i don't mind unanticipated obstacles; they keep life interesting and educational -- provided that my troubleshooting ideas work. problems

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