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fistonista says...

I've been so busy lately. A project I have been involved in is now in the execution phase. As in every other project, I have to manage resources to complete the goals. That includes people and stakeholders - not to mention a constantly changing timeline. 

Needless to say, sometimes it makes me feel that the world will end tomorrow. But every morning, it also teaches me there is nothing I cannot do but eating my own head. :p

Things I've learned from the project so far:

  • I am very poor in communication - especially when it comes to telling what I have in mind to others
  • Paying attention to details is so important - and I am not very good at it
  • If you work hard, you should play even harder
  • Multitasking sucks. Surely it always decreases my quality of work
  • Being talkative often helps you to look smart to others. Sadly I am not
  • This is what I call the work-life balance: everytime you do one task at work, you should post 4 - 5 tweets
  • Optimize resources

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arya says...

She's so beautiful.

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tarraxo says...

...for being enthusiastically festive this time of year.
November & December are pretty much the bomb.

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!

For my incredible family, for my supportive friends,
for Paula Dean's recipes, for scarves, for my dogs
that behave like people, for Gold Canyon candles,
for Chelsea Handler's crappy Nielson ratings, for
being able to pause live television, for COFFEEEE,
for Matt Lauer, for this huge blanket I'm lost in, for
hummus, for people that confuse Yoko Ono with 
Apollo Anton Ohno, for NYC, for purses, for the sun

coming out even when it's cold, for Andy Warhol's
impact, for Jimmy "fckn" Fallon, for boho chic, for
Dos Equis, for 80's British synthpop, for Greek
yogurt, for James Franco, for my fellow reality TV
haters, for babies that don't cry 24/7, for getting
to travel, for roommates that aren't annoying, for
upholstered walls, for mom's sweet potato casserole,
for Broadway shows, for being thought of when
my friends hear Jimmy Fallon's name, for "Aladdin",
for "Casablanca", for Audrey Hepburn, for hookah,
for Spurs basketball, for the color green, for a
trip to Florence this summer, for Cheryl Lynn's

"Got To Be Real", for Dad breaking into random
songs in the most random of moments, for the
strange enjoyment from watching exercise DVDs
without actually doing it, for men's Wranglers, for
my endless library of rad music, for mangos, for
Robin Williams, for sweets killing my diets, for Your
love, all this, and so much more, Lord, thank You.
,
Tarra
xo

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theradzilla says...

Driving home from work during sunset on Wednesday. Thanksgiving is today so I'll be heading down to Denver to spend it with some family of ours I've never met. I will be getting a camera soon on either this Friday (it's known as Black Friday for some reason) because there are huge sales on. Or I'll wait until next Monday (known as Cyber Monday) because there are a huge online sales.Anyways, Happy Thanksgiving ya'll!

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Personalmente, me interesa mucho todo lo que tiene que ver con el funcionamiento de la mente. Por eso me ha gustado uno de los últimos posts de Berto sobre la concentración en Think Wasabi. Y dentro del mundo de la mente, hay un apartado que me impacta más aún. Sí, efectivamente, me refiero al ego. Si hacemos uso del fácil recurso del Diccionario de la Real Academia, del ego se pueden leer estas dos acepciones:

1. m. Psicol. En el psicoanálisis de Freud, instancia psíquica que se reconoce como yo, parcialmente consciente, que controla la motilidad y media entre los instintos del ello, los ideales del superyó y la realidad del mundo exterior.

2. m. coloq. Exceso de autoestima.


Yo, que ni de lejos se del asunto, simplemente señalo aquí algo que me suena a contradicción en grado notable si nos fijamos en el mundo 2.0. Por un lado, es bastante patente que hay a quien ( se dice al menos) se le sube el ego ( que podría entenderse como exceso de autoestima y todos los excesos se dicen malos) cuando empieza a ser famoso en la blogosfera.

Por otra parte, que yo sepa, la internet participativa pasa por echar al suelo muchos individualismos para efectivamente trabajar de forma conjunta, en un plano de mayor horizontalidad, etc, etc. Y para eso el ego, chungo.

Desde luego que no me es fácil sacar una conclusión, tan necesaria en cualquier post que se precie, pues por un lado, me parece humano eso de que a uno se le suba el pavo con el famoseo que se pueda alcanzar en la red ( ya que no se cobra mucho...), si bien procuro personalmente no entrar en ese juego. Por otro lado, soy consciente de que los trabajos participativos no son tan buenos hasta el punto de anular las personalidades individuales, si no que se lo digan a la extinta URSS ( si es que recibe audiencia todavía).

En resumidas cuentas, y muy brevemente, el ego es arma de doble filo, fuel de estreses varios, aglutinador de adrenalina, perseguidor de comidas o gadgets de regalo; y motor indirecto de grandes obras, pero también de otras horrorosas... Todo un personaje, ¿no te parece?

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vertigo25 says...

This week has been an eye opener for me when it comes to my skepticism. I've realized it's pretty easy to get a chip on your shoulder about being rational and skeptical. The problem is that you can get lazy with it and fall in to several fallacies if you let that happen. You can get some information from a reliable source, say, and forget that there's no such thing as a 100% reliable source. Or, you can accept something just because it sounds about right… relying too confidently on your own critical thinking skills… but forgetting to actually practice them.

This week, I realized that I have made both of those mistakes on two prominent news stories.

The first, and most obvious, is the story of Rom Houben – the Belgian man who was believed to be in a coma for 23 years, but has recently started “communicating” through a computer. At least, that's what all the initial news reports told us. None of them mentioned that the process that was used to determine brain activity is, itself, very controversial (fMRI has even been able to detect emotional response from whole, dead fish). Nor that the “communication” was actually the long disproved pseudoscience of Facilitated Communication.

There's been a lot of criticism of this story written by people much smarter and more famous than me. I'm not going to rehash all of that, because that's not the point of this post. For those who may have somehow missed the controversy see: Wired Science, PZ Meyers, James Randi, and the discussion at MeFi.

No… the point of this post is that I bought it. Hook, line, and sinker. Despite there being obvious red flags in the initial stories I read (I didn't see the video until I read the PZ piece), I payed no attention to them. The reports spoke of “advanced scanning techniques” and “sophisticated computers” with no specifics. Despite that tactic of credulous journalism being one of my biggest pet peeves, I skipped them. I even ignored that initial thought of “Wow… for someone who spent 23 years silent and neglected, he seems remarkably well adjusted… and ‘well spoken’.”

The second story was the one about U.S. Census worker Bill Sparkman who was found dead in Kentucky with the word “Fed” scrawled across his chest.

It turns out, it was a suicide.

When the initial reports came out in September… I didn't question them. Not one bit. In this case, I didn't even see any red flags in the reporting. No internal voice said to me, “Really? Do you really think our society has gone this far off the edge? Or could there be something else going on here?” It's particularly shameful on my part, because back during the 2008 presidential election, I strongly suspected the woman who reported to have been attacked by a black Obama supporter of lying from the first headline I read. I'm embarrassed to say… ashamed, even… that I know my biases played a part in both my skepticism of Ms. Todd's story and the Sparkman story. My brain played the “us vs. them” game, and it was easy.

So what went wrong in my head?

I've been thinking it over, and I can say there was a lot. In neither case did I practice much critical thinking. The very first thing I did wrong, was not live up to my self-assigned credo: question everything. I let my biases play way too big of a part in accepting the information I was given. Sure… both cases involve credulous journalism, but I'm not going to lay the blame simply on them. I preach all the time, that verification is the key to getting past credulous reporting. I did practically no verification. Shame on me.

But there is something that these two stories share that I think helped greatly in shutting of my critical thinking. Something I think helped a lot of people do so.

Fear.

Yep. It's the mind killer, alright.

In both cases, the presentation of something I feared… deeply… made them less prone to my skepticism.

It's an odd reaction, really. We want, desperately, to believe that our fears are founded. Really, we want to believe any emotional response we may have is justified. And the deeper the emotion, the more primal it is; the more we want to believe. And fear may, perhaps, be the most primal emotion we have.

My take-home from this is that the more emotionally something affects me, the more I must question it… no matter how uncomfortable it may make me. Lesson two is that, even though I may practice often practice critical thinking, it does not make me right all the time. Even as skeptics, we are subject to ego and biases. Being aware of those things is just as important as critical thinking skills. Being critical of ourselves is as important as being critical of the information we receive… perhaps even more so.

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stepa says...

Когда мне было лет 10-11 (а на дворе тогда, соответственно, было год 1999-й где-то) я любил играться в радио. Я брал все свои кассеты (у меня было много сборников, которые я делал сам, записывая музыку с радио) и представлял что я радио-ведущий. Я говорил вслух всякие речи типа «Всем привет, мы снова с вами в эфире», в перерыве между песнями я болтал всякую чушь и, якобы, принимал звонки с приветами и просьбами поставить ту или иную песню. Одновременно с этим я тихонечко мотал кассеты, чтобы найти нужную песню, которая пойдёт в эфир следующей. У меня было расписание и были разные тематические программы. Более того, по воскресеньям ровно в 12 утра на моём радио был регулярный хит-парад. У меня даже была тетрадочка в которую я записывал положения тех или иных песен и изменения по сравнению с предыдущей неделей. Какой-то песне я даже отдавал первое место недель 5-6 подряд, было круто.

Вы только вдуматесь, едрён батон, ПРОМАТЫВАЛ КАССЕТЫ! Сейчас же на дворе 2009-й год и я могу без каких-либо вложений, не выходя из дома, сделать не то что своё радио, а своё телевидение! Причём его даже будут смотреть живые люди! Блин, это же охренеть... Сказал бы мне кто-нибудь подобное когда мне было 11 я бы каждый день спал бы только с мечтой об этом и ждал бы когда этот день наступит :)

Ну, и поставлю, по такому случаю, пожалуй, песню :)

Death by White Lies  
(download)

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wzwaan says...

via tweetie

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theradzilla says...

Been busy at work for the last week, but I am gradually getting used to the pace of things as well as the difficulties and varying processes CP+B like to do their business. I think (and hope) everything will come together, but I know it will take time and I must just persevere. One thing which is hard to get used to is adding in the wrong (or right, depends on how who look at it) letters in words. Whenever I am typing an email I use the 's' or the 'u' where I shouldn't and have to re-read it and then go back.

I have organised (or organized) to lease a car from a friend of mine who lives in Boulder, and as she is travelling around the world in 2 weeks time, I will be able to use her car for around 6 months, which is great news as I will be able to stop catching the bus and cabs everywhere I go. So tonight I met her and she took me on some driving lessons around Boulder. Luckily the streets were quiet, as a lot of the College kids are back at home with their families for Thanksgiving. I drove for around 20 minutes, and I can already see myself getting used to it. It's a great car to drive; a small, 4 door, Toyota which is very fuel efficient. It gets about 300 miles per tank (10 gallons), and the gas costs just $2.50 per gallon so that's pretty cheap to what I am normally used to. The hardest things are things like turning left and staying in the right lane and also just driving straight because I tend to veer to the right just naturally. It's going to take me a few days at least to get completely used to it but as I'll be using the car primarily to and from work (and occasionally to the mountains), I should be fine.

Other than that, work has been busy as usual and I am really looking forward to this short week (Thurs and Fri off), and going down to Denver to spend Thanksgiving weekend. I like the idea of this holiday and it's great seeing all my colleagues excited about the time off. It also makes me think just how opposite Australia and the US is. Just thinking about Thanksgiving made me immediately just think of Australia saying "Sorry" to the "lost generation". If we're downunder, they are upover. I don't know which is better. Maybe neither are. It's just different.

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