In Zen Buddhism it is said that enlightment or Nirvana comes in a
flash; in a moment in time.
In the same way I think children develop capabilities and learn new
things.
Anika suddently develops a new skill. She starts to say a new sound or
using the walker to move around the house or recognize objects.
Talking to parents I realize that this is a common occurance. That is
how children learn. I guess at about 7.5 months Anika is in what can
be called auto-pilot. Her genes determine her growth mostly combined
with the external environment.
I think the challenge is to remember this as parents and taking that
approach to learning as she grows. We are constantly reminded that
different children grow differently at this age and it is not a good
thing to compare kids. The problem is we forget that when kids move to
school.
In school everybody is expected to perform in a similar way. They are
graded and compared and pushed; if required with extra training.
I believe on growth and competition and developing new capabilities
etc but in her own time and own way.
I should remember this as Anika goes through life.
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