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Andy says...

Which does your leadership do? Do they play it safe--staying the same familiar course, avoiding potential change and upset or do they provoke to action, encourage continuous improvement, are they genuinely open to new ideas, and do they embrace the possibilities (along with the risks) of doing things better, faster, and cheaper?

Surely, some leaders are masters of envisioning a brighter future and provoking the change to make it happen. Leaders from Apple, Google, Amazon, and other special leaders come to mind. But many others remain complacent to deliver short-term results, not "rock the boat," and keep on fighting the day-to-day fires rather than curing the firefighting illness and moving the organization to innovation, ideation, and transformation through strategic formulation and execution.

Provoking to action is risky for leaders as the old saying goes, "the nail that sticks up gets hammered down," and often leaders that make even the best-intentioned mistakes in trying to do the "right thing" get sorely punished. Only enlightened organizations encourage innovation and experimentation and recognize that failure is part of the process to get to success.

While responsible leaders, almost by definition, provide a stable, reliable, secure, and robust operating environment, we must balance this with the need to grow and change productively over time. We need more organizations and leaders to stand up and provoke action--to drive new ways of thinking and doing things--to break the complacency mindset and remove the training wheels to allow a freer, faster, and more agile movement of organizational progress. To provoke action, we need to make our people feel safe to look out for long-term organizational success strategies rather than just short-term bottom line numbers.

Harvard Business Review (December 2009) provides some useful tips for provoking action called "Five Discovery Skills Separate True Innovators from the Rest of Us."

  • Associating--Develop a broad knowledgebase and regularly give yourself the time and space to freely associate--allow your brain to connect the dots in new ways and see past old stovepipes. Fresh inputs trigger new associations; for some these lead to new ideas.
  • Questioning--”Innovators constantly ask questions that challenge common wisdom. We need to question the unquestionable as Ratan Tata put it. We must challenge long-held assumptions and Ask why? Why not? And What if? Dont be afraid to play devils advocate. Let your imagination flow and imagine a completely different alternative. Remove barriers to creative thinking and banish fear of people laughing at you, talking behind your back, dismissing you, or even conducting acts of reprisal.
  • Observing--Careful observation of people and how they behave provides critical insights into what is working and what isnt. There is a cool field of study in the social sciences called ethnomethodology that studies just such everyday human behavior and provides a looking glass through which we can become aware of and understand the ways things are and open us up to the way things could be better.
  • ExperimentingWeve got to try new things and approaches to learn from them and see if they work and how to refine them. Productive changes dont just happen all of a sudden like magic; they are cultivated, tested, refined, and over time evolve into new best practices for us and our organizations. Experimentation involves intellectual exploration, physical tinkering[and] engaging in new surroundings.
  • NetworkingIts all about people: they inspire us, provoke us, complement us, and are a sounding board for us. We get the best advances and decisions when we vet ideas with a diverse group of people. Having a diverse group of people provides different perspectives and insights that cannot be gleaned any other way. There is power in numbers”--and I am not referring to the power to defeat our enemies, but the power to think critically and synergistically. The group can build something greater than any individual alone ever could.

Of course, we cannot drive change like a speeding, runaway train until it crashes and burns. Rather, change and innovation must be nurtured. We must provoke to action our organizations and our people to modernize and transform through critical thinking, questioning the status quo, regular observation and insight, the freedom to experiment and constructively fail, and by building a diverse and synergistic network of people that can be greater than the sum of their parts.

Filed under: Networking

Andy says...

Which does your leadership do? Do they play it safe--staying the same familiar course, avoiding potential change and upset or do they provoke to action, encourage continuous improvement, are they genuinely open to new ideas, and do they embrace the possibilities (along with the risks) of doing things better, faster, and cheaper?

Surely, some leaders are masters of envisioning a brighter future and provoking the change to make it happen. Leaders from Apple, Google, Amazon, and other special leaders come to mind. But many others remain complacent to deliver short-term results, not "rock the boat," and keep on fighting the day-to-day fires rather than curing the firefighting illness and moving the organization to innovation, ideation, and transformation through strategic formulation and execution.

Provoking to action is risky for leaders as the old saying goes, "the nail that sticks up gets hammered down," and often leaders that make even the best-intentioned mistakes in trying to do the "right thing" get sorely punished. Only enlightened organizations encourage innovation and experimentation and recognize that failure is part of the process to get to success.

While responsible leaders, almost by definition, provide a stable, reliable, secure, and robust operating environment, we must balance this with the need to grow and change productively over time. We need more organizations and leaders to stand up and provoke action--to drive new ways of thinking and doing things--to break the complacency mindset and remove the training wheels to allow a freer, faster, and more agile movement of organizational progress. To provoke action, we need to make our people feel safe to look out for long-term organizational success strategies rather than just short-term bottom line numbers.

Harvard Business Review (December 2009) provides some useful tips for provoking action called "Five Discovery Skills Separate True Innovators from the Rest of Us."

  • Associating--Develop a broad knowledgebase and regularly give yourself the time and space to freely associate--allow your brain to connect the dots in new ways and see past old stovepipes. Fresh inputs trigger new associations; for some these lead to new ideas.
  • Questioning--”Innovators constantly ask questions that challenge common wisdom. We need to question the unquestionable as Ratan Tata put it. We must challenge long-held assumptions and Ask why? Why not? And What if? Dont be afraid to play devils advocate. Let your imagination flow and imagine a completely different alternative. Remove barriers to creative thinking and banish fear of people laughing at you, talking behind your back, dismissing you, or even conducting acts of reprisal.
  • Observing--Careful observation of people and how they behave provides critical insights into what is working and what isnt. There is a cool field of study in the social sciences called ethnomethodology that studies just such everyday human behavior and provides a looking glass through which we can become aware of and understand the ways things are and open us up to the way things could be better.
  • ExperimentingWeve got to try new things and approaches to learn from them and see if they work and how to refine them. Productive changes dont just happen all of a sudden like magic; they are cultivated, tested, refined, and over time evolve into new best practices for us and our organizations. Experimentation involves intellectual exploration, physical tinkering[and] engaging in new surroundings.
  • NetworkingIts all about people: they inspire us, provoke us, complement us, and are a sounding board for us. We get the best advances and decisions when we vet ideas with a diverse group of people. Having a diverse group of people provides different perspectives and insights that cannot be gleaned any other way. There is power in numbers”--and I am not referring to the power to defeat our enemies, but the power to think critically and synergistically. The group can build something greater than any individual alone ever could.

Of course, we cannot drive change like a speeding, runaway train until it crashes and burns. Rather, change and innovation must be nurtured. We must provoke to action our organizations and our people to modernize and transform through critical thinking, questioning the status quo, regular observation and insight, the freedom to experiment and constructively fail, and by building a diverse and synergistic network of people that can be greater than the sum of their parts.

Filed under: Networking

Andy says...

Which does your leadership do? Do they play it safe—staying the same familiar course, avoiding potential change and upset or do they provoke to action, encourage continuous improvement, are they genuinely open to new ideas, and do they embrace the possibilities (along with the risks) of doing things better, faster, and cheaper?

Surely, some leaders are masters of envisioning a brighter future and provoking the change to make it happen. Leaders from Apple, Google, Amazon, and other special leaders come to mind. But many others remain complacent to deliver short-term results, not “rock the boat,” and keep on fighting the day-to-day fires rather than curing the firefighting illness and moving the organization to innovation, ideation, and transformation through strategic formulation and execution.

Provoking to action is risky for leaders as the old saying goes, “the nail that sticks up gets hammered down,” and often leaders that make even the best-intentioned mistakes in trying to do the “right thing” get sorely punished. Only enlightened organizations encourage innovation and experimentation and recognize that failure is part of the process to get to success.

While responsible leaders, almost by definition, provide a stable, reliable, secure, and robust operating environment, we must balance this with the need to grow and change productively over time. We need more organizations and leaders to stand up and provoke action—to drive new ways of thinking and doing things—to break the complacency mindset and remove the training wheels to allow a freer, faster, and more agile movement of organizational progress. To provoke action, we need to make our people feel safe to look out for long-term organizational success strategies rather than just short-term bottom line numbers.

Harvard Business Review (December 2009) provides some useful tips for provoking action called “Five Discovery Skills Separate True Innovators from the Rest of Us.”
  • Associating—Develop a broad knowledgebase and regularly give yourself the time and space to freely associate—allow your brain to connect the dots in new ways and see past old stovepipes. “Fresh inputs trigger new associations; for some these lead to new ideas.”
  • Questioning—“Innovators constantly ask questions that challenge common wisdom.” We need to “question the unquestionable” as Ratan Tata put it. We must challenge long-held assumptions and “Ask why? Why not? And What if?” Don’t be afraid to play devil’s advocate. Let your imagination flow and “imagine a completely different alternative.” Remove barriers to creative thinking and banish fear of people laughing at you, talking behind your back, dismissing you, or even conducting acts of reprisal.
  • Observing—Careful observation of people and how they behave provides critical insights into what is working and what isn’t. There is a cool field of study in the social sciences called ethnomethodology that studies just such everyday human behavior and provides a looking glass through which we can become aware of and understand the ways things are and open us up to the way things could be better.
  • Experimenting—We’ve got to try new things and approaches to learn from them and see if they work and how to refine them. Productive changes don’t just happen all of a sudden like magic; they are cultivated, tested, refined, and over time evolve into new best practices for us and our organizations. Experimentation involves “intellectual exploration…physical tinkering…[and] engaging in new surroundings.”
  • Networking—It’s all about people: they inspire us, provoke us, complement us, and are a sounding board for us. We get the best advances and decisions when we vet ideas with a diverse group of people. Having a diverse group of people provides different perspectives and insights that cannot be gleaned any other way. There is “power in numbers”—and I am not referring to the power to defeat our enemies, but the power to think critically and synergistically. The group can build something greater than any individual alone ever could.

Of course, we cannot drive change like a speeding, runaway train until it crashes and burns. Rather, change and innovation must be nurtured. We must provoke to action our organizations and our people to modernize and transform through critical thinking, questioning the status quo, regular observation and insight, the freedom to experiment and constructively fail, and by building a diverse and synergistic network of people that can be greater than the sum of their parts.

Filed under: Networking

Andy says...

Which does your leadership do? Do they play it safe—staying the same familiar course, avoiding potential change and upset or do they provoke to action, encourage continuous improvement, are they genuinely open to new ideas, and do they embrace the possibilities (along with the risks) of doing things better, faster, and cheaper?

Surely, some leaders are masters of envisioning a brighter future and provoking the change to make it happen. Leaders from Apple, Google, Amazon, and other special leaders come to mind. But many others remain complacent to deliver short-term results, not “rock the boat,” and keep on fighting the day-to-day fires rather than curing the firefighting illness and moving the organization to innovation, ideation, and transformation through strategic formulation and execution.

Provoking to action is risky for leaders as the old saying goes, “the nail that sticks up gets hammered down,” and often leaders that make even the best-intentioned mistakes in trying to do the “right thing” get sorely punished. Only enlightened organizations encourage innovation and experimentation and recognize that failure is part of the process to get to success.

While responsible leaders, almost by definition, provide a stable, reliable, secure, and robust operating environment, we must balance this with the need to grow and change productively over time. We need more organizations and leaders to stand up and provoke action—to drive new ways of thinking and doing things—to break the complacency mindset and remove the training wheels to allow a freer, faster, and more agile movement of organizational progress. To provoke action, we need to make our people feel safe to look out for long-term organizational success strategies rather than just short-term bottom line numbers.

Harvard Business Review (December 2009) provides some useful tips for provoking action called “Five Discovery Skills Separate True Innovators from the Rest of Us.”
  • Associating—Develop a broad knowledgebase and regularly give yourself the time and space to freely associate—allow your brain to connect the dots in new ways and see past old stovepipes. “Fresh inputs trigger new associations; for some these lead to new ideas.”
  • Questioning—“Innovators constantly ask questions that challenge common wisdom.” We need to “question the unquestionable” as Ratan Tata put it. We must challenge long-held assumptions and “Ask why? Why not? And What if?” Don’t be afraid to play devil’s advocate. Let your imagination flow and “imagine a completely different alternative.” Remove barriers to creative thinking and banish fear of people laughing at you, talking behind your back, dismissing you, or even conducting acts of reprisal.
  • Observing—Careful observation of people and how they behave provides critical insights into what is working and what isn’t. There is a cool field of study in the social sciences called ethnomethodology that studies just such everyday human behavior and provides a looking glass through which we can become aware of and understand the ways things are and open us up to the way things could be better.
  • Experimenting—We’ve got to try new things and approaches to learn from them and see if they work and how to refine them. Productive changes don’t just happen all of a sudden like magic; they are cultivated, tested, refined, and over time evolve into new best practices for us and our organizations. Experimentation involves “intellectual exploration…physical tinkering…[and] engaging in new surroundings.”
  • Networking—It’s all about people: they inspire us, provoke us, complement us, and are a sounding board for us. We get the best advances and decisions when we vet ideas with a diverse group of people. Having a diverse group of people provides different perspectives and insights that cannot be gleaned any other way. There is “power in numbers”—and I am not referring to the power to defeat our enemies, but the power to think critically and synergistically. The group can build something greater than any individual alone ever could.

Of course, we cannot drive change like a speeding, runaway train until it crashes and burns. Rather, change and innovation must be nurtured. We must provoke to action our organizations and our people to modernize and transform through critical thinking, questioning the status quo, regular observation and insight, the freedom to experiment and constructively fail, and by building a diverse and synergistic network of people that can be greater than the sum of their parts.

Filed under: Networking

Andy says...

Which does your leadership do? Do they play it safe—staying the same familiar course, avoiding potential change and upset or do they provoke to action, encourage continuous improvement, are they genuinely open to new ideas, and do they embrace the possibilities (along with the risks) of doing things better, faster, and cheaper?

Surely, some leaders are masters of envisioning a brighter future and provoking the change to make it happen. Leaders from Apple, Google, Amazon, and other special leaders come to mind. But many others remain complacent to deliver short-term results, not “rock the boat,” and keep on fighting the day-to-day fires rather than curing the firefighting illness and moving the organization to innovation, ideation, and transformation through strategic formulation and execution.

Provoking to action is risky for leaders as the old saying goes, “the nail that sticks up gets hammered down,” and often leaders that make even the best-intentioned mistakes in trying to do the “right thing” get sorely punished. Only enlightened organizations encourage innovation and experimentation and recognize that failure is part of the process to get to success.

While responsible leaders, almost by definition, provide a stable, reliable, secure, and robust operating environment, we must balance this with the need to grow and change productively over time. We need more organizations and leaders to stand up and provoke action—to drive new ways of thinking and doing things—to break the complacency mindset and remove the training wheels to allow a freer, faster, and more agile movement of organizational progress. To provoke action, we need to make our people feel safe to look out for long-term organizational success strategies rather than just short-term bottom line numbers.

Harvard Business Review (December 2009) provides some useful tips for provoking action called “Five Discovery Skills Separate True Innovators from the Rest of Us.”
  • Associating—Develop a broad knowledgebase and regularly give yourself the time and space to freely associate—allow your brain to connect the dots in new ways and see past old stovepipes. “Fresh inputs trigger new associations; for some these lead to new ideas.”
  • Questioning—“Innovators constantly ask questions that challenge common wisdom.” We need to “question the unquestionable” as Ratan Tata put it. We must challenge long-held assumptions and “Ask why? Why not? And What if?” Don’t be afraid to play devil’s advocate. Let your imagination flow and “imagine a completely different alternative.” Remove barriers to creative thinking and banish fear of people laughing at you, talking behind your back, dismissing you, or even conducting acts of reprisal.
  • Observing—Careful observation of people and how they behave provides critical insights into what is working and what isn’t. There is a cool field of study in the social sciences called ethnomethodology that studies just such everyday human behavior and provides a looking glass through which we can become aware of and understand the ways things are and open us up to the way things could be better.
  • Experimenting—We’ve got to try new things and approaches to learn from them and see if they work and how to refine them. Productive changes don’t just happen all of a sudden like magic; they are cultivated, tested, refined, and over time evolve into new best practices for us and our organizations. Experimentation involves “intellectual exploration…physical tinkering…[and] engaging in new surroundings.”
  • Networking—It’s all about people: they inspire us, provoke us, complement us, and are a sounding board for us. We get the best advances and decisions when we vet ideas with a diverse group of people. Having a diverse group of people provides different perspectives and insights that cannot be gleaned any other way. There is “power in numbers”—and I am not referring to the power to defeat our enemies, but the power to think critically and synergistically. The group can build something greater than any individual alone ever could.

Of course, we cannot drive change like a speeding, runaway train until it crashes and burns. Rather, change and innovation must be nurtured. We must provoke to action our organizations and our people to modernize and transform through critical thinking, questioning the status quo, regular observation and insight, the freedom to experiment and constructively fail, and by building a diverse and synergistic network of people that can be greater than the sum of their parts.

Filed under: Networking

Andy says...

Which does your leadership do? Do they play it safe—staying the same familiar course, avoiding potential change and upset or do they provoke to action, encourage continuous improvement, are they genuinely open to new ideas, and do they embrace the possibilities (along with the risk) of doing things better, faster, and cheaper?
 
Surely, some leaders are masters of envisioning a brighter future and provoking the change to make it happen. Leaders from Apple, Google, Amazon, and other special leaders come to mind. But many others remain complacent to deliver short-term results, not “rock the boat,” and keep on fighting the day-to-day fires rather than curing the firefighting illness and moving the organization to innovation, ideation, and transformation through strategic formulation and execution.
 
Provoking to action is risky for leaders as the old saying goes, “the nail that sticks up gets hammered down,” and often leaders that make even the best-intentioned mistakes in trying to do the “right thing” get sorely punished. Only enlightened organizations encourage innovation and experimentation and recognize that failure is part of the process to get to success.
 
While responsible leaders, almost by definition, provide a stable, reliable, secure, and robust operating environment, we must balance this with the need to grow and change productively over time. We need more organizations and leaders to stand up and provoke action—to drive new ways of thinking and doing things—to break the complacency mindset and remove the training wheels to allow a freer, faster, and more agile movement of organizational progress. To provoke action, we need to make our people feel safe to look out for long-term organizational success strategies rather than just short-term bottom line numbers.
 
Harvard Business Review (December 2009) provides some useful tips for provoking action called “Five Discovery Skills Separate True Innovators from the Rest of Us.”
  • Associating—Develop a broad knowledgebase and regularly give yourself the time and space to freely associate—allow your brain to connect the dots in new ways and see past old stovepipes. “Fresh inputs trigger new associations; for some these lead to new ideas.”
  • Questioning—“Innovators constantly ask questions that challenge common wisdom.” We need to “question the unquestionable” as Ratan Tata put it. We must challenge long-held assumptions and “Ask why? Why not? And What if?” Don’t be afraid to play devil’s advocate. Let your imagination flow and “imagine a completely different alternative.” Remove barriers to creative thinking and banish fear of people laughing at you, talking behind your back, dismissing you, or even conducting acts of reprisal.
  • Observing—Careful observation of people and how they behave provides critical insights into what is working and what isn’t. There is a cool field of study in the social sciences called ethnomethodology that studies just such everyday human behavior and provides a looking glass through which we can become aware of and understand the ways things are and open us up to the way things could be better.
  • Experimenting—We’ve got to try new things and approaches to learn from them and see if they work and how to refine them. Productive changes don’t just happen all of a sudden like magic; they are cultivated, tested, refined, and over time evolve into new best practices for us and our organizations. Experimentation involves “intellectual exploration…physical tinkering…[and] engaging in new surroundings.”
  • Networking—It’s all about people: they inspire us, provoke us, complement us, and are a sounding board for us. We get the best advances and decisions when we vet ideas with a diverse group of people. Having a diverse group of people provides different perspectives and insights that cannot be gleaned any other way. There is “power in numbers”—and I am not referring to the power to defeat our enemies, but the power to think critically and synergistically. The group can build something greater than any individual alone ever could.

Of course, we cannot drive change like a speeding, runaway train until it crashes and burns. Rather, change and innovation must be nurtured. We must provoke to action our organizations and our people to modernize and transform through critical thinking, questioning the status quo, regular observation and insight, the freedom to experiment and constructively fail, and by building a diverse and synergistic network of people that can be greater than the sum of their parts.

Filed under: Networking

Andy says...

Which does your leadership do? Do they play it safe—staying the same familiar course, avoiding potential change and upset or do they provoke to action, encourage continuous improvement, are they genuinely open to new ideas, and do they embrace the possibilities (along with the risk) of doing things better, faster, and cheaper?
 
Surely, some leaders are masters of envisioning a brighter future and provoking the change to make it happen. Leaders from Apple, Google, Amazon, and other special leaders come to mind. But many others remain complacent to deliver short-term results, not “rock the boat,” and keep on fighting the day-to-day fires rather than curing the firefighting illness and moving the organization to innovation, ideation, and transformation through strategic formulation and execution.
 
Provoking to action is risky for leaders as the old saying goes, “the nail that sticks up gets hammered down,” and often leaders that make even the best-intentioned mistakes in trying to do the “right thing” get sorely punished. Only enlightened organizations encourage innovation and experimentation and recognize that failure is part of the process to get to success.
 
While responsible leaders, almost by definition, provide a stable, reliable, secure, and robust operating environment, we must balance this with the need to grow and change productively over time. We need more organizations and leaders to stand up and provoke action—to drive new ways of thinking and doing things—to break the complacency mindset and remove the training wheels to allow a freer, faster, and more agile movement of organizational progress. To provoke action, we need to make our people feel safe to look out for long-term organizational success strategies rather than just short-term bottom line numbers.
 
Harvard Business Review (December 2009) provides some useful tips for provoking action called “Five Discovery Skills Separate True Innovators from the Rest of Us.”
  • Associating—Develop a broad knowledgebase and regularly give yourself the time and space to freely associate—allow your brain to connect the dots in new ways and see past old stovepipes. “Fresh inputs trigger new associations; for some these lead to new ideas.”
  • Questioning—“Innovators constantly ask questions that challenge common wisdom.” We need to “question the unquestionable” as Ratan Tata put it. We must challenge long-held assumptions and “Ask why? Why not? And What if?” Don’t be afraid to play devil’s advocate. Let your imagination flow and “imagine a completely different alternative.” Remove barriers to creative thinking and banish fear of people laughing at you, talking behind your back, dismissing you, or even conducting acts of reprisal.
  • Observing—Careful observation of people and how they behave provides critical insights into what is working and what isn’t. There is a cool field of study in the social sciences called ethnomethodology that studies just such everyday human behavior and provides a looking glass through which we can become aware of and understand the ways things are and open us up to the way things could be better.
  • Experimenting—We’ve got to try new things and approaches to learn from them and see if they work and how to refine them. Productive changes don’t just happen all of a sudden like magic; they are cultivated, tested, refined, and over time evolve into new best practices for us and our organizations. Experimentation involves “intellectual exploration…physical tinkering…[and] engaging in new surroundings.”
  • Networking—It’s all about people: they inspire us, provoke us, complement us, and are a sounding board for us. We get the best advances and decisions when we vet ideas with a diverse group of people. Having a diverse group of people provides different perspectives and insights that cannot be gleaned any other way. There is “power in numbers”—and I am not referring to the power to defeat our enemies, but the power to think critically and synergistically. The group can build something greater than any individual alone ever could.

Of course, we cannot drive change like a speeding, runaway train until it crashes and burns. Rather, change and innovation must be nurtured. We must provoke to action our organizations and our people to modernize and transform through critical thinking, questioning the status quo, regular observation and insight, the freedom to experiment and constructively fail, and by building a diverse and synergistic network of people that can be greater than the sum of their parts.

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ramonsuarez says...

Investors - VC & Angels

Jean Derely is doing a great job rallying the Belgian Web Entrepreneur scene and acting as a network multiplier in Brussels.

Among the services he provides to the community he has collected a very interesting selection of links to make the life of entrepreneurs easier, among which is this list of investors (venture capitalists and business angels). Check the BetaGroup's website for more.

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arianna says...

Last night I gave a talk at Ignite. I practiced my talk for hours and had written down exactly what I had planned to say. Unfortunately, when I got on stage - I didn't say any of this. I was frazzled over having to sit in a separate section of the audience and ended up talking more about that. Even though I didn't say everything I meant to, I would like to let you read my speech here.

The biggest thing I learned last night was that I have amazingly supportive friends. Thank you so much to everyone. In particular, Derek Merdinyan, Roberto Hoyos, Amy Anderson, and Sam Lavine. Thank you guys all so much!

The following is what I was *supposed* to say:

Hi. My name is Arianna O’Dell & The name of my Ignite talk is “How to Sneak into Bars”. Catchy title don’t you think? Upon seeing this you might be thinking “awesome” sneaking into bars! While sneaking into bars may sound exciting it not something I personally enjoying doing.

Why would someone need to sneak into a bar? The first thought for most people is for alcohol- and while that may be thrilling, this isn’t why I started sneaking into bars. I trained myself in this devious art to gain access to networking events.

I’d like you to take a look around the audience. Turn to your neighbor and look at the people sitting next to you. I’m willing to bet the vast majority of you aren’t sitting next to a college student. Ignite provides talks about a diverse array of subjects – many of which would interest a college student, but why aren’t many of them here?

Unfortunately, their lack of presence isn’t limited to just Ignite events. Whether it’s a social media, entrepreneurship, technology, or any other type of networking event – college students are deterred from attending. Considering the state of the job market, you’d think students would be clamoring to make as many connections as they can. So why aren’t they showing up? From my experiences they aren't given the respect the deserve.

My fellow students find it intimidating to go to these events when they know they won’t be given the same respect as someone that’s been in the work force for a few years. When students are asked ‘what they do’, they’re consistently get the following line: “oh you’re still in college --- okay, bye!” You don’t have to hear that many times to get turned off from the idea of networking.

Despite the less than warm welcome students receive at networking events, those who still make an attempt to participate don’t make it a habit. Imagine what it would be like to go to work if your boss treated you like that for the first six months of employment at a new job.

Let me tell you how I tried to overcome this problem and why sneaking into bars isn’t as exciting as it may sound. Step one: tell everyone you’re 27. Sure you may look a little young but who is going to fight you on the matter?

“Don’t ask, don’t tell” is my mantra. Most people generally don’t ask about your age. When I started telling people I was a technology entrepreneur and left out the little detail of me being a college student, more people began to listen instead of giving me a patronizing “okay….bye.” More and more people started saying, “oh really? Tell me more”

While this worked for a while, it quickly became stressful pretending to be only ‘part’ of who I was. Even though a college student may be able to gain acceptance this way, truly fitting in involves being one’s true self. After feeling the burnout of constant pretending, I started revealing to my new friends how old I really was.

To my surprise many people responded that my age was nothing but a number to them and they valued my opinion even more. I felt embraced by the Seattle community and felt a true sense of acceptance. Because I’d been able to prove I had value to offer before being discriminated against by my age, I was able to foster the relationships I had been seeking. In the past when I revealed my age first and

“Inexperienced”, “naive”, “young”, “party-goers”, and “lazy” are all words that pop into someone's head when you mention college students. It’s a label with unwanted connotations that apply to a minority and not the majority. It’s a stereotype like gender, race, and sexuality. It’s a label that isn’t readily accepted in many professional environments.

In addition to being a college student, I’m also a girl. This compounded with the college student stereotype play against me as I try to create a name for myself. My intention tonight isn’t to complain or share a sob story.

My hope tonight is to lay the first stone on a path for more young talented individuals to enjoy the same benefits of networking events that all of you partake in. Every time I talk with students about going to networking events, I always hear the same thing: they don’t like going to networking events because they feel that they don’t belong. This is a most unfortunate misconception.

We want to get involved but not if we’re seen as a waste of time. While you have great skills and expertise to offer – so do we. There are countless examples of young trailblazing entrepreneurs who are changing and leading today’s world.

I’ve forged relationships with so many incredible people in the Seattle community. Many of you are sitting in this audience right now. There are so many great people who I admire for the great advice they give and the tales of past experiences and endeavors they’ve shared with me. If I could ask you for one thing today, it would be to rethink your next interaction with a student you see at a networking event.


If I still haven‘t convinced you that college students arn‘t worth the time let me give you two words. Mark Zuckerberg. The founder of the multimillion dollar empire of Facebook created the website while still in school. While Mark‘s success may be one in a million – the next Zuckerberg is probably enrolled at your nearest college, wanting to create something that will change the world.

Whether it’s elementary school students, high school students, or college students – everyone has something to offer. Remember back to when you were in our shoes. Think about the experiences you have had where you were not taken seriously because of your age. The next time you meet someone of a young age I’d like you to think about the many skills and expertise they have to offer.

Yes, everyone has something to offer. Each person you meet has the opportunity to bring their own set of skills to the table. Sometimes the person you least expect will know more about a given subject then you ever imagined.

While the title may have made you go huh? It’s my hopes that you are now going hmmm. The sneaking into bars may seem like fun, it is my hopes that I’ve convinced you otherwise and informed you of the age discrimination currently present at many of these events.

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Erik says...

Laryssa Wirstiuk at Too Shy To Stop used a few quotes from me in an article about networking for creatives.

I also like Kristen Dolle's reminder that "As a creative, you're one of the most interesting people in the room..."

Good stuff.

http://www.tooshytostop.com/2009/12/02/too-shy-to-schmooze-creative-networking/

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