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yogeek says...

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I got a little creative with my daily video in November. I had a plan as to what I wanted to shoot today. We were going to go to Babies R Us to stock up on some essentials for Hunter. I thought it would be great to share some of the stuff that we like.

But, the Saturday was taken over by Healthcare Reform. 

We ended up staying at grandma's house and watching CSPAN basically the whole afternoon. 

Well, I must admit that I didn't watch. I'm a bit too overwhelmed by all of it, and my mind can't really capture what's going on.

So, I got creative and expressed it via my daily vid for NaVloPoMo09 or National Vlog Posting Month

Peace

Filed under: #hcr, #hrc, healthcare reform, life, navlopomo, newinnov09, vlomo09

Tommy says...

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Poem from the McMichael Gallery. It was an early piece of commercial art done by Tom Thomson. There was a forest landscape done in pen and ink which included the quote by Henry Van Dyke (1852–1933) below:

Footpaths to Peace

To be glad of life, because it gives you the chance to love and to work and to play and to look up at the stars; to be contented with your possessions, but not satisfied with yourself until you have made the best of them; to despise nothing in the world except falsehood and meanness, and to fear nothing except cowardice; to be governed by your admirations rather than by your disgusts; to covet nothing that is your neighbor's except his kindness of heart and gentleness of manners; to think seldom of your enemies, often of your friends; and to spend as much time as you can, with body and with spirit, in God's out-of-doors.....these are little guideposts on the footpath to peace. 

Filed under: Footpath, Henry Van Dyke, Life, Nature, Peace, Tom Thompson

MichaelNozbe says...

Together with my wife we're almost finishing our new apartment and we're planning to move in very soon, in about two weeks. Definitely before the end of November.

That's our constraint, our limit, we need to have every "dirty" work done in the apartment one week before December to make sure we have the time to move and settle in.

Unfortunately, that's the only limit we have with this project - time, the options as to how to make the apartment, which floors to choose, which bathroom, bedroom, living room or kitchen furniture and other stuff to buy...

... the choices are limitless...

...and that's a serious problem, 'cos very often we can't make up our mind about things, those tiny little things...

...and since everything for the apartment costs so much, there is additional fear of spending lots of money on something that will look like crap and that we'd hate every day for the rest of our lives.

This is why I'm always trying to limit myself, add a constraint to every decision.

Like when I'm choosing the material for bathroom, there are literally thousands of materials and tens of companies that offer them in different sizes, shapes, colors... and there is a simple process I'm doing every time a decision has to be made:

1) I choose just one company to go with, the one that looks has the best kinds of stuff overall for the fair price

2) I choose 2-3 options from this company's offer

3) I make the decision, choose one and don't look back.

Easy, right? Hell no. There are so many companies and so many colors that it's still hard... and since it's "our" apartment, we need to make the decision together - me and my wife - and she's a lot more concerned about colors and shapes than I am.

And she cares more for the entire vision of the finished apartment... like will this floor in the living room match the floor in the kitchen with the kitchen furniture... etc.

And it's not a bad thing that she's so concerned about these tiny little details - it's a good thing... but we have to remind ourselves not to get sucked in too much in all this. Why?

Because you'll almost never know if the decision you've made is right, directly after you've made it.

No computer simulation or 3D visualization will tell you - not until the stuff you chose has been bought and installed. Real life is different than virtual computer reality.

Most decisions are being made "almost" blindly anyway...

That's right. Very often the shade of brown we chose for furniture will turn up different after the furniture has arrived, the beige floor will be more brown than beige after it's been installed...

... so we trust our gut and instincts - we've chosen great looking stuff anyway!

That's why we have to remind ourselves not to get over-careful with our decisions.

The same principle applies to almost every aspect of our lives. We hardly see the outcome of our decisions right after we've made them. We need to trust our guts. We need to limit ourselves and if there is no constraint, put one ourselves to make sure we have only up to 3 valid good choices. And then act on them and choose the one and don't look back.

Just like with software development: "shipping is a feature", in life: "decision is a feature" too. And limiting our choices helps us make good decisions.

I've been in a similar situation (and I still am) during Nozbe 2.0 development - I have to choose - which feature to keep, how to implement it, what's the limit and how to limit myself so that I can ship it as soon as possible and show to my users. And now that I'm working on a second app, I need to limit myself again... to make sure I actually ship version 1 and avoid staying in a loop of adding more and more features before the release.

It's really good to embrace the constraints... and if you don't have them, create them yourself to make sure you can make a right and quick decision and move on... and never look back.

And if you do make the wrong decision, you'll later have plenty of time to fix it anyway. This is life. Nobody's perfect. Embrace it.

Question: With what kind of decisions have you been struggling lately? How did you make up your mind? What techniques, tips or tricks you're using to move forward and decide? 

me I'm Michael Sliwinski and I'm an entrepreneur who's also the...
.. Founder of Nozbe.com - a time and project management web application
.. Editor of Productive! Magazine - a global PDF publication on productivity
.. and a blogger as well as a producer of a weekly 2-minute Productive! show.

Filed under: life, productivity, startup

costasco says...

Да, 7 ноября - и ни грамма кумача или другой, знакомой с детства атрибутики. А погода сегодня порадовала вздохом будущей весны..

Уже никто почти не вспомнил,
Ни в телевизоре, ни так,
И целый век переживаний,
Бессмысленно растаял так..

   
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Precious Illusions - Alanis Morissette
Hands Clean - Alanis Morissette

Looking for an icebreaker when you meet that possibly special someone? Here's one from Alanis Morissette: "Do you have a big intellectual capacity but know that it alone does not equate wisdom?" That's one of the "21 Things I Want in a Lover," the power-chorded personal ad that opens Under Rug Swept, Morissette's latest grapple with the ups and downs of love. And it's not the only song on the album to suggest that her dream date would be Deepak Chopra.

The avenging banshee who sang "You Oughta Know" in 1995, complete with its boast about going down on her ex in a theater, has mellowed on Under Rug Swept, though she's still busting taboos. The album title comes from lyrics in its lead single, "Hands Clean," an apparently matter-of-fact reminiscence of underage sex with a music-business mentor, an affair "under rug swept." As if to insist it's autobiographical, the song's video clip shows Morissette being groomed for her early stardom in Canada as a big-haired teeny-pop doll. Verses taking the man's role urge her to "overlook this supposed crime"; in the chorus, she announces, "I have honored your request for silence." Until now, that is. (How long is that statute of limitations, anyway?)

With Under Rug Swept, Morissette is mentor-free. After the two multiplatinum studio albums she made with Glen Ballard as producer and songwriting collaborator, Morissette wrote and produced the new album on her own. Sonically, she has learned all she needs. The music is brawny and meticulous, a further refinement of the tracks she created with Ballard on Supposed Former Infatuation Junkie. She concocts folk rock driven by hip-hop beats, ballads that build without getting gooey and hard rock aswirl with psychedelia.

The keyboards and acoustic guitars sparkle; electric guitars jab hard-rock chords and seethe with distortion. Most of all, Morissette understands her voice as both emollient and irritant. She makes it quiver delicately with nervousness and seesaw between vulnerability and resolve. She uses her nasal edge to slice up a self-absorbed guy in "Narcissus," then comes up with the perfect whine, multiplied in an overdubbed chorus, as she wonders, "Why, why, do I try to change you?"


While she applies her musical skills to songs about love, they don't exactly add up to love songs. After "21 Things," the album examines romantic calamities: the little rejections that cause her to feel "So Unsexy," the ex-boyfriend who can still make her "Flinch." Then come successes: the reluctant guy who overcomes his misgivings in "Surrendering," a promise of unconditional love in "You Owe Me Nothing in Return." The album concludes with a wistful, waltzing vision of a perfectly understanding world, "Utopia," in which Morissette becomes an airy Celtic choir.

The need, the obstacles, the compassion, the happy ending -- this is the structure of self-help books and talk shows, and unfortunately it seems that Morissette has been consuming them wholesale. Under Rug Swept just about drowns in psychobabble. While the tone of the songs, and the grain of Morissette's voice, promise intimacy, there's hardly a private detail anywhere. Any glimmer of lived experience or everyday imagery - the antibiotics in "Thank U," the refrigerator light in "Not the Doctor" - has been rarefied into abstractions, with enough cliches for a season of Oprah.


Try "Precious Illusions," as she intones, "I want to decide between survival and bliss/And though I know who I'm not/I still don't know who I am/But I know I won't keep on playing the victim." Or "That Particular Time," a serenely spacious hymn carrying a prosaic payoff: "I kept on ignoring the ambivalence you felt/And in the meantime I lost myself." Lines like that might provide some perspective if there were a story to go with them, but there is none. Even "Hands Clean" holds not a hint of Lolita guilt, forbidden passion or resentment; compared to her furious take on the same situation in "Right Through You," on Jagged Little Pill, it's downright clinical.


Morissette has always had a vague, jargon-slinging side, but on past albums she offset it with raw confessions. Under Rug Swept doesn't bother to get off the couch, and its final track, "Utopia," sounds like an eternal group-therapy session, where "we would share and listen and support and welcome." The paradox is that as Morissette talks herself into self-esteem and deep, shared love, she numbs her own wayward individuality.

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i had ella last night and this morning while sam went to watch fireworks last night and go rowing this morning. ella is too young and gets really scared of the loud bangs - she thinks the flashes are pretty thou. she's growing up fast. two years in and it is funny how all the adult things you thought defined you as a parent fall away and only one truth comes to the fore. that your providing for a life, you have to grow a pair and deal. one thing i was prepared for mentally and i'm so excited to see her develop and grow each day. life has a funny way of letting you when you need internal correction. she gives me reason to seek those corrections. onwards.

catchup media day. time to put some flesh to these draft blogposts.  and maybe, just maybe take a nap. ;0

       
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Tommy says...

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Some wisdom from my 18-year-old self.

I’d dare to make more mistakes next time. I’d relax, I would limber up, I would be sillier than I have been this trip, I would take fewer things seriously. I would take more chances. I would take more trips. I would climb more mountains, swim more rivers. I would eat more ice cream and less beans. I would perhaps have more actual troubles, but I’d have fewer imaginary ones.

You see, I’m one of those people who live seriously and sanely hour after hour, day after day. Oh, I’ve had my moments, and if I had to do it over again, I’d have more of them. In fact, I’d try to have nothing else. Just moments, one after another, instead of living so many years ahead of each day. I’ve been one of those persons who never goes anywhere without a thermometer, a hot water bottle, a raincoat, and a parachute. If I had to do it again, I would travel lighter than I have.

If I had to live my life over, I would start barefoot earlier in the spring and stay that way later in the fall. I would go to more dances. I would ride more merry-go-rounds. I would pick more daisies.

I’m happy to say I feel I’ve achieved all of these in the past three years of my life and part of the reason I moved to Seattle. I’ve climbed mountains, I’ve danced a lot, I’m in the middle of a three week trip visiting friends and family, I’ve started a company and will be a founder again, and Molly Moon’s in Seattle gets me to eat my fair share of ice cream. ;)

click the link above to read his blog...

i think this 18 yr old is pretty smart ...and has wisdom for all of us...go have fun ...do it ...be passionate....be barefoot....be siilly....

Hes great isnt he...leave a comment below...thanks!!!

Filed under: 18, fun.barefoot, life, live, love, story

Chris says...

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