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benaar says...

It's been cold here recently, cold enough in fact to force me off the bike for my daily commute. However, despite the chill and the torrential rain we had throughout November, there's not a flake of snow to be seen. I'm still holding out hope for some semblance of a white Christmas but I doubt we'll have much and almost certainly it'll be nothing like last year!

Also, going thru these pictures I came across this video of Joel reading. It doesn't seem like he changes that much from day to day anymore, but looking back it's pretty remarkable (insert some "they grow up so fast" platitude here). I think he was fighting a cold or was all stuffed up from being outside or something. The result is even that much more adorable.

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andylie says...

My reading has actually taken me into the end of Day 68, which puts me in the early chapters of the Gospel of Matthew, but I've been a bit lagging in writing about the previous days.  There's a great promise in Hosea 11:1:

"When Israel was a child, I loved him,
       and out of Egypt I called my son.
 
The Gospel of Matthew references this, as the infant Jesus is taken to Egypt to escape the infant slaughter by Herod.  Matthew 2:13-15 states:

 13When they had gone, an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream. "Get up," he said, "take the child and his mother and escape to Egypt. Stay there until I tell you, for Herod is going to search for the child to kill him." 14So he got up, took the child and his mother during the night and left for Egypt, 15where he stayed until the death of Herod. And so was fulfilled what the Lord had said through the prophet: "Out of Egypt I called my son."

It is yet another sign foretelling Christ in the Old Testament.

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I have had a couple of soccer practices lately wherein the girls have been a bit more difficult to manage.  After all, they are 11 year olds, mostly 6th graders, and it's an age where they start pushing the limits of authority, particularly when it comes to certain drills that they aren't fond of.  Some have flat out refused to participate, so as my anger builds, I give them the option of participating, or running laps until that drill is over (participating in the drill usually wins out...)

But I've realized that my anger, at times, displays itself in ways that probably isn't most effective, even though I might consider it to be righteous anger within the context of coaching.  So it was convicting to read, during Day 65, the following passage in the book of Joel 2:13:

Rend your heart
       and not your garments.
       Return to the LORD your God,
       for he is gracious and compassionate,
       slow to anger and abounding in love,
       and he relents from sending calamity.

Where I've certainly made the mistake is that my anger seems to increase more quickly with my own daughter, and she's not in a place where she can easily segregate my dual roles as father to her and coach to her.  I need to become slower to anger and be more abounding in love to her and her teammates. 

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There's a great prayer that stuck with me in the book of Jonah.  In verse 2 of chapter 2:

"In my distress I called to the LORD,
       and he answered me.
       From the depths of the grave I called for help,
       and you listened to my cry.

God will always answer when we call him.  Always. 

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benaar says...

Last night at the dinner table, my 3 year old told his first knock knock joke.

Joel: "Daddy, I want to tell you a joke"
Me: "OK"
Joel: "Knock, knock"
Me: "Who's there?"
Joel: "Goat"
Me: "Goat who?"
Joel: "Goat to the door and find out!"

I just about fell off my chair. I dunno why it caught me as so funny, I mean it's a cute joke but definitely not in the comedic genius category or anything. I think it was the idea that he, in his own little 3 year old way, was pulling one over on me. I hadn't heard that particular joke before (or if I had I'd long since forgotten the punch line) so when he delivered, slightly bumbling and trying to remember exactly how it went I was at once surprised, proud and completely tickled. Brilliant!

Just wait 'till Uncle Sean comes over…

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benaar says...

I'm kinda sad that the holiday I remember as Halloween seems to be going by the wayside. Like most people my age I fondly recall tromping un-chapperoned as a child through the neighborhood on my annual candy quest. Apparently the world is different now and we had a grand total of 3 visitors on Halloween night at our house. However, we did join a whole grip of costumed kiddos earlier at the Greenwood Businesses "Safe Trick or Treat". Joel had a great time playing the carnival games and by the end of the afternoon was confidently (if uncharacteristically) galloping up to the candy distributors along the route announcing, "It's me! I'm Eeyore!"

We did have a few people comment about his little "sister" dressed up as Piglet.

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benaar says...

As a human born into this world, there are certain things you just know instinctually. Things like how to breath, how to laugh, and what sound a lightsaber should make.

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joelsharpton says...

I can't hammer a nail (not if you expect it to be straight). I can barely fix a flat and change my oil (and even then, I have to borrow some wheel ramps). I don't hunt, fish or carry heavy things. I am not what you might call a "man's man".

And yet, every now and then for a few brief moments, I get to feel like a guy that knows a thing or two that other people can use. It happens when I go home and spend 30 minutes cleaning junk off my Aunt's computer or installing the latest browser/OS update/Casual game. She feels delighted and I feel useful.

It happened yesterday (and today) when a former professor needed my advice on his TV problems. He's got a lovely 30" HDTV that he purchased in 2005 (on my suggestion) that has served him faithfully until the last few months. The color went completely haywire. Suddenly Charlie Gibson was a distasteful shade of green and the "NCIS" team was disturbingly blue...and I don't mean depressed.

On my way home yesterday, I spoke with him, running down the checklist of things I imagined it could be. My first guess was slightly disconnected video cables. Our Apple TV is exposed atop our entertainment center and occasionally a little elf (named Judah) will unplug the video cables for us. This leads to new and interesting visuals from our friends on "Word World" and "Sid the Science Kid." Having fixed this problem myself a few times, I was pretty sure that would fix HIS problems too, but it's rather hard to get behind his TV (darn you, built in entertainment cabinet!) so we explored a few other possibilities. Speakers not close enough to the screen to be a problem (it doesn't happen as much anymore, because almost everything is magnetically shielded now, but it can still happen), uniform color issues from all video components (so it's not just a bad DVD player or satellite box) etc. etc. Once my list had been checked and checked again, we agreed that the cables were our last resort. This morning, I got the email back that (after a back breaking removal of the TV from the cabinet) the cables were indeed the issue and beautiful color is once again my friend's to enjoy.

It wasn't really a big deal for me. I was driving home, so the conversation didn't cut into any family/personal time. I don't live within 100 miles of my friend, so I didn't even have to politely offer to help him move the TV! All I did, was listen to the problem and pass on a little technological info I've picked up along the way.

And it made me feel like a useful man.

To whom do I owe my techno know-how? Three parties are largely responsible and all are about to get big props:

1. Mom - Working for the local school board, she was exposed (and therefore I was exposed) to whatever the latest computer tech was. I remember well playing with the menu driven OS pre-Windows. There were 10 options, three of which Mom would ever let us choose (I don't think SHE even knew what the other 7 would do) but I couldn't get enough. A few years later, we got a computer in our home (Win 3.1 Baby!) and a full-on geek was born.

2. Chris - My cousin is several years older than me. When I was seven or eight, he was driving around in a restored 60's Mustang. When I was just getting ready to learn to drive, he had already been installing car stereos and such for years. He taught me everything I know about wiring, clean installation (which applies far outside the car) and acoustics. I was the first kid in my class with surround sound in his room, always had one of the best "bang for your buck" car systems, and was handy to have around if your speaker blew or your amp gave out.

3. The Radio Center - My first "real" job was as a DJ. From running the board and intro-ing country tunes, my job expanded to include voice production and a lot of computer/website/system maintenance. It also included the ability to bring home lots of spare parts. I rebuilt my secondary computer about ten times in the three years I worked at the radio station and learned more about the guts of electronics than I ever imagined I would need to know.

This skill set has been great for me. It helped get me the job at the Radio Center, then helped get my current job. But the number one thing it does for me is keep me from ever feeling useless. When the neighbor is building a porch for his wife or a treehouse for his kid, I don't feel inadequate. I just smile. Because when his network crashes or his stereo goes on the fritz, I'll be there. Then I'll get him to build MY kid a treehouse!

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joelsharpton says...

My high school reunion was this past weekend. Out of the small class of 51, about 30 showed up with their spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends etc. We did the standard, voting on "Least Changed Boy/Girl", "Most Changed Boy/Girl."

Physically, most of us hadn't changed that much. Maybe we're a few pounds heavier or lighter, maybe our hair is a little darker/lighter/thinner/gone. Maybe we dress a little nicer or carry ourselves with a little more seriousness now that we're legitimate members of the tax paying world. But it was easy to see the star athlete, the nerd, the cheerleader, the class president inside these almost 30 year old men and women.

But fundamentally, we are all different. The ten years that have passed since we walked across the stage for graduation have changed us. We're wiser, less naive, maybe a little jaded, definitely more focused on our goals than on our popularity or social standing. We make adult decisions everyday: which bill to pay and which to let slide, whether to take the higher paycheck or the larger benefit package, to have a baby now, or hold off until we're a little more financially stable. We've largely let go of the petty misunderstandings and differences that kept us from being friendly ten years ago. We've grown up.

Sunday afternoon I watched another group and realized the same can be said of them. They don't make the silly mistakes that have held them back in the past. They aren't worried about beauty contests or which clique they're supposed to be seen with. They show up everyday and make adult decisions. They work hard and are focused on their long-term goals. The New Orleans Saints have grown up.

We heard rumors about this growth in training camp. That this year, things were different. Things have been different before. Things were different when we got Archie Manning. Things were different when we drafted Ricky Williams. Things were different when Jim Haslett was focusing on defense. Things were different when Reggie Bush arrived. But suddenly, things really are different.

The Saints I grew up with would have lost the game at Philly. The tears we Saints fans have cried over big early leads blown by sloppy defensive play could fill the Superdome.

The Saints I grew up with would have lost the game at Buffalo. Take away Drew Brees and all our receivers? That has always equaled a loss.

The Saints I grew up with would have crumbled against the expectations of 4-0. The mighty Giants behind the golden arm of Manning the Younger would have laid us low, and reminded us why we're the 'Aints, not Championship contenders.

The Saints I grew up with would have laid down after that terrible start last night. 4 interceptions from Brees? 4??? Fumbles galore? The complete inability to handle this Wildcat offense that the national media is so enamored with? We should have been done.

But we weren't. With Saints "fans" jumping off the bandwagon by the dozens, Drew Brees told his head coach to put it on him. To put up or shut up. Payton gave him a chance, and Brees put up. He put his money (and his golden arms) where his mouth was and got into the endzone. The bandwagon jumpers slowed a bit, uneasy at this continued attempt at victory. But most of 'em kept jumping off.

Then the real change in the Saints showed itself. The defense, long the laughing stock of the NFL (and professional sports as a whole) stood tough. The Saints lauded offense sputtered, and the defense stood strong. Cutting drives short, forcing field goals instead of TD's and even scoring themselves when Brees and the offense couldn't get it done. 

Darren Sharper is easy to point to as the difference, and Holy Moses knows he's a major one, but it extends through the rest of the secondary, the linebacking corp, the defensive line and into the special teams. We've now got leaders, real leaders on both sides of the ball. Men who don't accept failure as an option. Men who don't know how to lay down. Men who will win, if they can get others to follow them.

The Saints have grown up. And I'm gonna follow them all the way to February and another trip to Miami. Are you with us?

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joelsharpton says...

As a kid, I always loved horror movies but was also a big scaredy-cat. The classic Universal Monster Movies were a way that I could have my cake and still get some sleep.

Having already seen the Scorecese version of "Cape Fear" as well as "The Terminator" (terrifying the first time I saw it) my Mom rented the 1930's "Frankenstein" and Lon Chaney Jr.'s "The Wolf Man." 

My opinions of "Frankenstein" have been so coloured by my experiences with "Young Frankenstein" that it's hard to remember what it felt like the first time I saw that one. But, "The Wolf Man" is still fresh. I loved it immediately. The atmosphere created by the claustropbic (and foggy) set design, the doomed man performance by Chaney and the easy to remember and impossible to forget rhyme all are etched in my memory.

Today, as part of the Halloween season and in honor of the latest trailer for the impending remake starting Benicio Del Toro, I rewatched my beloved monster movie. Everything is there even 20 years later. It's still moody, still just a little cheesy and still 100% enjoyable.

Judah and Remy are still a little young for monsters, but when they're ready, I know what their first will be.

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joelsharpton says...

1999.

Some people remember it as the year Prince likes to party as if it were (diagram THAT sentence). Some people remember it as the year Snake Plisken escaped from New York (remember when '99 was "the future"?). Others remember it as the year George Lucas raped their childhood. I remember all those things, but I also remember my first new car. My first personal computer (our family had one for ages, but this one was MINE). But mostly, I remember it as the year I graduated High School.

Growing up in North Louisiana in the southern equivalent of a factory town (a paper mill town), I went to private school my whole life. This wasn't fancy pants private school like some of you may imagine. It was
mostly a way to ensure that we wouldn't be taught about birth control or too much about evolution. It was also to help ensure we'd have small classes and one on one time with teachers.

My Senior class was tied for the largest class ever from PVA (Prairie View Academy) with 51 students. With just 51 in our class, we could throw a party and actually expect (and sometimes get) everybody to show
up. Obviously we had cliques, (how can you not if you have more than three or four people together) but our cliques were mostly accepting of each other and there was a lot of crossover.

This weekend is our tenth anniversary. For the past two or three weeks, I've been trying to decide how that makes me feel. For one, a little old. It's been 10 years since I was a punk kid, raring to get out of my parents house and start my "real life" in college. It's been 10 years since I started college. Naive and excited about the wide world before me with the "big city" of Ruston as my playground.

10 years ago, I was a pre-law student.
10 years ago, I listened to rap music almost exclusively.
10 years ago, I'd never really been in love.
10 years ago, I didn't like beer.
10 years ago, the most important point on my resume was "National Honor Society member".
10 years ago, I'd never acted in a play outside of my local community theatre.
10 years ago, I'd never left the country.
10 years ago, I'd never lived alone.
10 years ago, I'd never paid rent.
10 years ago, I was nobody's "daddy".
10 years ago, I was a kid.

A lot changes in 10 years.

On the one hand, it seems as if high school was just yesterday. On the other, it seems as if I've lived a dozen lives since then.

I can't wait to see my classmates. Those people that I shared that long ago life with. I imagine that their list of "ten years ago" is
similarly entertaining. I can't wait to talk about it over a cold beer.

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benaar says...

I've been trolling the depths of the ol' iPhoto library recently. It's pretty amazing to see how much Joel has changed over the last 3 years. He doesn't even recognize himself in older photos. I'll show him pictures of when he was just a year old, he looks at them and confidently says, "that is Baby Isaac."

I'm particularly fond of these old Halloween pics. What a cutie.

                 
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